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Alien Breeder by Hankey’s Toys

I’ve been wanting to expand my ‘pretty’ dildo collection and when Hankey’s Toys agreed to collaborate with me on a review, I was THRILLED. Not only did they give me their Alien Breeder dildo, but they also made it with custom colors! I am officially obsessed with this company. Hankey’s Toy’s is definitely going to be my go to for all my future anal training needs.

This highly textured xeno themed toy is made of a very soft silicone. If you don’t like soft toys, however, you can choose their medium firm option. I got the medium size, which is a total of 10.62 inches with an insertable length of 9.37 inches and a circumference of 8.75 (at the widest spot). This is a beastly toy. They actually warned me when choosing a toy that their toys are bigger than you’d expect. That’s quite the understatement.

I tried this toy for the first time on my OnlyFans and let me tell you, the look on my face when I put it inside me was wonderful. In the end I was only able to push it in to the beginning of the hump/knot in the middle, but what I could fit was…lovely. There were many a gasp and ‘oh, fucks!’.

One of the sides is completely smooth (similar to the Xenomorph head) and the other side is extremely textured. The attention to detail is incredible. All the little ‘vertebrae’ along the front and the sides created a wonderful sensation, and the small design at the back (see below) is engineered perfectly! When you swing the toy around, the little ridges contract and expand with the motions. When I noticed that I geeked out a little.

I was a bit worried that with all of the intricate details, it would be hard to clean, but that turned out not to be the case. Since the silicone I got is so soft I was easily able to use my toy cleaner to get in all the little spots. If you use a foaming cleaner you can really see it get into the little spaces, but using a non foaming cleaner I would recommend letting it all sit on the toy for a few moments, just in case.

After doing quite a bit of research and social media hunting on Hankey’s Toys, I started noticing an ‘anal’ trend. It seems like most of the toys (understandably so) are used for anal play. Not only is the size a challenge for vaginal penetration, but the base is also perfectly formed for that use, being thick and flared. I have yet to climb that mountain but I am VERY excited to. The textures and the lump…yummy!

I will absolutely be working with and/or buying more products from Hankey’s Toys in the future. I am in love with their attention to detail and the quality of their products. Just remember, these toys are for size queens. Hankey’s doesn’t do anything small.


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I was sent the Alien Breeder for free by Hankey’s Toys in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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How to Clean Your Sex Toys (Spices of Lust)

Cleanliness is next to godliness, and when it comes to keeping your sex toys clean, it is an act of god. A mandatory exercise! Because no matter how much pleasure you derive from it, the toy needs to be squeaky clean and ready to use on the go!


So how do we go ahead and keep them clean and sparkling?
This has been a question on our minds for a long time. Please remember, just water will not do, that dildo needs to be germ-free before it touches your nerves. The reason is plain and simple- our bodies, no matter how incredible they are, are a hive for the germs.


Be it the tongue or the vagina, they provide not just the moment of madness but plenty of microorganisms too. While that doesn’t mean the body is a bag full of dirt, the possibility of a bacterial buildup on the toys is for real.


The benefit of regularly cleaning the toys are manifold, it keeps them well serviced and hence the longevity. When they are serviced well, their performance will speak for itself. No woman would want her best rabbit vibrator shut off in the middle of a climax. The idea is to be as careful as possible. While you may want the sex to be dirty, you surely will not want the toys to be dirty too.


The ideal routine is to wash them before every use as well as after the use. Every sex toy comes with cleaning instructions and that needs to be followed. Also, the cleaning instructions vary with the material.

What Cleans What and How?

  • If it is made of silicone, glass, or wood and has a motor attached to it, the best way to get rid of those pestering microbes is with an antibacterial soap. After you have washed it well, wipe it clean with a dry cloth.
  • If it’s silicone, stainless steel, or stone and does not have a motor attached to it, hot water does the trick. Place them under hot water for a full 10 minutes and the results would be fruitful. One can run it through the dishwater too without even need of the soap. The steam will take care of the germs.
  • Leather gives you pleasure. However, it is also an exotic material and needs a lot of attention. The product needs to be wiped with a damp cloth soaked in soap. One can also use a leather cleaner. Friendly advice, never soak the leather. It will lose its texture and softness forever. After it has been cleaned, use a leather conditioner to recondition it. Leather toys have metal parts attached to it. To protect them from rusting, use nail polish. One cleaning hack that has never failed.

However, probably the best way to clean your sex toys are special toy cleaning products, but also not all of them. Antibacterial soaps as well as alcohol that can be found in many sex toy cleaning products can dry out your sex toy. When buying a sex toy cleaner, you should keep an eye on several ingredients. We recommend avoiding alcohol, triclosan, parabens and glycerine as those are harsh chemicals and can be harmful to your body.


In case you’re wondering which one is a good choice, here’s one – Intimate Earth Green Foaming Toy Cleaner, sold by MedAmour. And not only are the ingredients great, but this cleaner does a great job with silicone, glass and stainless steel toys.

Why the fuss?

Sex toys are primarily tools that will be used over the human body and some, a few inches inside. That makes them high precision tools of sorts. Pun apart, before buying a sex toy, remember to check how body safe is it. Or whether the material that has been used to build these toys are safe for the human body.


Materials like jelly, Cyberskin, vinyl and rubber should best be avoided, they are porous and generally difficult to maintain. Porous materials have pockets within their structure that can collect body fluids, which is a conducive environment for germs. That is why, non-porous objects are easy to maintain, and hence they last longer too.


Should you use toys made of said materials, we recommend using condoms. Not only are they almost impossible to clean, but materials like vinyl and rubber can contain dangerous chemicals (phthalates) which are dangerous for your skin. So the best you can do is to stay away.


Nothing works better than boiling. Simply insert the toys into a mug of boiling water and let it take care of all the germs that. Be careful of some toys though. And this is important for the ones which have a motor attached to it, check whether it is detachable. If yes, the battle is won. Separate, splash the part minus the motor into hot water. Take it out and wipe it clean.


Lovemaking is a pleasurable experience and a memorable one too, if everything planned stays on course. However, safety trumps all, and with our how to keep sex toys clean advisory, you can go one notch up and turn it harder.


Spices of Lust is a blog created by Leja and Luka, a couple in their mid-20’s. Initially, Spices of Lust was supposed to be a place to share our journey exploring sexuality, but it evolved to be so much more. Both of them enjoy crafting content related to sex and that is why, their blog is home to many guides, ideas, sex toy reviews, and occasional erotic stories. Since they moved to the US, not even 2 years ago, Spices of Lust gained traction and got picked in Top 100 sex blogs of 2019 as well as Top 10 new blogs of 2019. When they are not taking pictures of dildos or writing about floggers, Luka enjoys cooking and Leja enjoys eating. Find them online @spicesoflust

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KISSTOY – C-King Clitoris Stimulator

I never thought I would fall so in love with another pinpoint toy. After reviewing other pinpoint stimulation toys, such as the Noje Quiver (my original favorite pinpoint toy) and then the Zumio X, I was a bit skeptical of the C-King by KISSTOY. All of that skepticism went out the window as soon as I turned it on!

The C-King is made of a silky smooth ABS plastic and is 100% waterproof for water time fun. There are 5 different vibration speeds that range from ‘oh yeah!’ to ‘oh fuck!’. It takes approximately 2 hours for it to charge and has a use time of up to 90 minutes.

I am blown away by the charging of this toy. Yes, it has a magnetic USB charger like the Quiver and technically the Zumio X, but that’s not all! The C-King comes with a very sturdy travel case, which ALSO doubles as a charging stand! You can charge the toy on its own with just the USB cable or in the travel case (cover on or off!) I’m getting very excited talking about this, so bear with me.

This toy is also EXTREMELY quiet! The first time I turned it on, I was worried that it was broken. I couldn’t hear it! I actually had to put my ear up to it for there to be any intense noise. It is legitimately the first time I have received a toy with ‘whisper mode’ that actually holds to that descriptor! The previous pinpoint toys were an absolute let down in that regards.

The tips (yes plural) are mind blowing! While the main tip is about the same length as the Quiver, it has the roundness of the Zumio X, but it’s a perfect combination of both. The silicone caps that come with it are actually the best thing to happen to my clit, and nipples. The rounded cap makes the tip larger and the vibrations much more rumbly instead of intensely buzzy like the previous two pinpoint toys. The cap that (to me) looks like a kitty head is wonderful on my nipples. The curve perfectly encapsulates the tips and drives me nuts!

The orgasms this thing gives me are incredible. I thought the Quiver gave me great orgasms, but the last time I used the C-King, I came TWICE, in 5 MINUTES! For me, that is ridiculous. I had no complications with its size, shape, nothing. My larger than average clit is pleased, my belly doesn’t get in the way, and the decibels allow me to use this toy in peace without disturbing my partner (even while locked in a studio apartment during the pandemic!)

If I were to say anything negative about the C-King it’s that maybe the handle vibrates a bit too much. When it’s on the highest setting, things in the upper part of the grip go a bit tingly. Also, the button to turn it on is a press and hold for 3 seconds power button. In comparison to the Zumio X single press, this toy might be a bit more difficult for people who have a hard time with finger/hand pressure.

Out of all of the pinpoint stimulation toys, this is by FAR my favorite. It gives me incredible orgasms, it’s mostly fully body inclusive, plus it’s so pretty and sleek! In the battle for pinpoint, the C-King is…well…King (even though I absolutely abhor gender titled sex toys *eye roll*)


You can get the C-King HERE


I was sent the KISSTOY C-King for free by BestVibe in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Spareparts Hardware Joque Harness (Black) XS-5X + Wet For Her Strap-On Dildo Five (Pink)

Wet for Her was kind enough to send me the Joque Harness (size B) by Spareparts Hardware and the Dildo Five by them. This is the first strap-on set that I have ever had and I LOVE them. This combo is perfect for beginners and experts. I couldn’t have asked for a better starter set.

Strap-On Dildo Five

The dildo is pretty amazing for a non gendered insertable toy. It’s made of a velvety smooth, body safe silicone and the firmness of it is on the softer end of firm, so it definitely has some flexibility, but not enough to ruin the moment by having it flop all over the place. The dimensions of the Medium are 5.1 inches by 1.38 inches. Plus it’s got a slight curve upwards, so it’s great for hitting all the spots.

I was a bit put off by the lack of suction cup, but I very quickly learned that it was absolutely unnecessary. The base is extremely wide and firm, so in a solo play session, I was able to thrust it into myself with a quickness without loosing momentum. A lot of suction cup dildos’ bases are usually too flimsy to keep grip, so it’s fairly easy to lose momentum.

I also noticed that, even though the base is rather thick, the vibration transference is wonderful! Putting a wand or simple vibrator at the base allows you to transform this fairly basic dildo into a delightfully rumbly toy.

Joque Harness

The Joque Harness is WONDERFUL! It’s really comfortable and super easy to use. The size B version that I received fits waist sizes 35-65 inches. There is also a size A version that fits 20-50 inches. The fact that all sized bodies can enjoy this harness makes my heart flutter.

The straps that go around your thighs are slightly stretchy and there is a sliding adjustment thing, so no matter how big your thighs are, you’ll be able to fit through these holes. The waist portion is the only place that get slightly tricky. It’s tightened by Velcro so you have to bunch up the section until it’s tight then you have to secure it before repeating on the other side.

Placing a toy inside the o-ring is super easy. All you do is unfold the flaps that rest against the body and shove the toy through the hole. Unfortunately, the o-ring is not all that flexible and it is not interchangeable. It only fits dildos up to 2 inches wide, so if you’re looking to use a monster dong on someone, you’re gonna have to find an alternative.


Overall, the quality and comfort of both of these products is spot on. They’re usable for all body types and allow for hours of fun. You can use the Dildo Five by yourself or with a partner super easily, and you can wear the harness proudly, knowing that you’ll have complete control of the toy you’re using.


You can get the Wet For Her Dildo Five HERE and you can get the Joque Harness HERE!


I was sent the Joque Harness by Spareparts Hardware and the Dildo Five for free by Wet for Her in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Vibease Ruby

The Vibease Ruby is, interesting. There are many toys that have this similar ‘tickler’ design, but the Ruby had been fully designed beautifully. It’s a gorgeous piece to look at, but that’s about where the praise stops.

The Ruby is made of a silky smooth silicone. The main body of the toy is firmer while the 2 silicone ear pieces are more flexible and squishy. The base of the toy is chiseled to be similar to that of a gem, or ruby (hence the name), which makes the whole toy easy to hold onto.

While in use, the ears are actually quite disappointing. Yes they flutter and buzz as expected, but for something that goes against the delicate skin of the labia, they aren’t as soft as they should be. The tips are very nice as pinpoint stimulation against the clitoris and the nipples, but accidentally press too hard, or slip a bit, and you’ll find yourself getting jabbed in a not so pleasant manner.

You charge it via USB jack plug, which is located on the side of the toy, and the base flashes when charging. It takes about an hour to charge, but on a full charge, you can use it for up to 3 hours! From an outsiders perspective, that may seem amazing, but as soon as you turn it on and feel the hand numbing buzz, you can immediately tell why the battery life is so long.

For a toy that’s almost $70, I’d definitely expect a better motor. The motor within this toy is similar to your run of the mill bullet, which is much cheaper, and will give you the same results. You could even spend about $10 and get something like the Tango, which has an incredible motor, and won’t make your clit numb. However, the motor in the Ruby does make the pinpoint stimulation quite nice. I wouldn’t scoff at someone using this toy on me for some serious foreplay.

The various patterns are actually pretty nice. If the toy had a better motor, I would definitely say that these are some of my favorite vibration patterns I’ve experienced. There are a grand total of 7 options, 3 of which are just different intensities. You to cycle through them by pressing the very small, and difficult to feel, power button (shown in the first image).

Some of the things that you can do with this toy, besides using the quivering ears, is using it just like a regular ol’ bullet. If you turn it on it’s side, with the ears pressed together against your body, you can use the end of the base (where the motor is).

While this toy isn’t something I would recommend for someone who enjoys rumble vibes, I would have to say that it is quite versatile. Unfortunately, the motor quality does not line up with the price point of a toy like this, but it’s still a good option for a body safe, rechargeable, beautifully designed, toy.


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I was sent the Ruby by Vibease in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Tailz Pink Bunny Tail Vibrating Anal Plug

This plug is SO much fun! It’s adorable and super powerful. This plug is perfect for all forms of anal play: vanilla, pet play, etc. I am so thrilled to have this in my collection. Might not use it all that often since the size is really intimidating, but it’s definitely a conversation starter!

The Tailz Plug is made of body safe silicone and the bunny poof is made of synthetic fibers. It is splash proof but not submersible, so you can wash it thoroughly but it’s not wise to use this for water play. It is rechargeable via usb plug with a charge time of 60 minutes. You can get up to 90 minutes of play per charge depending on the vibration levels. Plus it comes with a really nice remote so once it’s in, either you or your partner can play with the 3 speeds and 7 patterns.

Unfortunately, the thing that makes this toy so adorable is also one of the biggest negatives. While the tail is adorable, it’s kind of a pain in the ass (pun intended). The power button and the jack are both located almost directly underneath the poof ball. When you go to charge it it’s almost impossible not to get some of the fibers stuck in the plug, which makes me super paranoid.

The good definitely outweighs the bad with this toy. I am a huge fan of the shape of the base since it sits perfectly between my cheeks and doesn’t put any pressure against them. It’s very comfortable. Plus the velvety softness of the silicone makes it a very gentle experience when slipping it in (even if the widest part gets a bit rough). The remote is amazing and works so well, even with the toy inside a body. Plus, the remote controls everything from speed to vibration modes and the buttons are nicely labeled for minimal confusion.

Overall, I would absolutely recommend the Tailz Anal Plug. The tail is adorable (while not totally functional), the materials are extremely high quality, and the size is excellent for those wanting to expand their anal training. Plus its super fun to use with a partner and extra fun if you wanna feel like an adorable little bunny for a little while.


You can get the Tailz Pink Bunny Tail Vibrating Anal Plug right HERE , plus get 10% off using the code PINKSPACELIME


I was sent the Tailz Pink Bunny Tail Vibrating Anal Plug for free by Naughty Betty’s in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Ballistic Metals Baby Sid Plug 2″

The Ballistic Metals Baby Sid Plug is…intimidating to say the least. I didn’t even get the largest version and it’s huge. This toy was designed by the porn performer Baby Sid to be pleasurable for both penis having and vagina having humans. While I haven’t yet tried this toy vaginally, I am very excited to do so.

The Baby Sid Plug is made of solid aircraft grade aluminum which means it’s heavy and very susceptible to temperature change. The version that I purchased is 2 inches at its widest point. The length, including the base, is 5 inches. Since this toy was designed to go both vaginally and anally, so the whole thing feels amazing no matter what hole you put it in.

For people who are doing anal training, this collection is incredible. The sizes range from 1.5 inches to 2.5 inches, so you can start off small(ish) and go big. It also allows you to feel a more intense sensation anally, instead of starting out with the typical, simple silicone or metal plugs. Great for the risk takers.

My experience was interesting. I haven’t played with anal toys in a hot minute so I’m a bit behind in my training. With this toy I was only able to get it to about halfway round the largest bit before giving up. I definitely tried, but it just wasn’t in the cards. I do, however, have a much easier time when it is helped along by a partner, so hopefully I’ll be able to get it all the way in through team effort.

This is not just a sex toy, this is a piece of art. Even if you don’t end up enjoying this plug, it’s very pretty to display. While the price tag on this product is a tad high, it’s well worth it. The bumps and lumps feel amazing for any body, in any hole.


I purchased this product with my own funds. If you wish to help me purchase more products to review head to my ‘Goodies‘ page or use the link above to purchase this product. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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VeDO Izzy

The VeDO Izzy is the perfect ‘budget’ clitoral vibe. Not only is VeDo an amazing brand but their motors are the strongest I’ve seen in a budget collection. It’s also one of the first vibes I’ve had where I didn’t have to smash it against my body, so color me impressed. This might just be my favorite go-to travel vibe.

The Izzy is made of a super smooth, body safe silicone. It is rechargeable via USB plug and it is completely submersible. There is a single power button which cycles through all 10 of the unique vibration modes and if you double press the button quickly, it turns on travel lock, so you’ll never have to worry about it buzzing in your luggage.

The shape of this thing is a little odd, but in a great way. It’s not what I expected upon looking at the box, but as soon as I held it for the first time, I understood why it was designed that way. The whole thing actually looks a little phallic, and in a way it kind of reminds me of the shape of my cat when she’s sitting down. The larger base with the power button and the charge port are shaped perfectly to fit in the palm of your hand, while the thinner vibration end is able to slip between your labial folds with ease.

Along the narrow end, there is a squishy silicone nub and it is fantastic! I really thought I wouldn’t like it, or it would just get in the way, but the way that this toy is designed made it extremely useful. The thing that I find most interesting about the Izzy is that it is rideable. This isn’t just your average bullet vibe. This is a toy that you can actually place on a surface, and the shape plus the added stimulation nub, makes it wonderful and easy to use for all body types.

As I’ve mentioned before, I’m not a huge fan of the variety of vibration patterns on most toys, but every once in a while I’ll come across one that I fall in love with. With the Izzy that pattern was the almost heartbeat like pulse. It allowed me to get into an amazing rhythm with my stroking and because it mimicked my heartbeat, my mind automatically associated the feeling with being aroused. It made it so easy to cum which is definitely a positive for me.

The thing that I really dislike is, surprisingly, the motor, or more specifically the design plus the motor. The motor is extremely strong. While usually this a wonderful thing, paired with a toy that is quite short, makes things tricky. Because the motor is so strong, you can feel it throughout the whole toy at full blast, so it made holding onto it for a long period of time, difficult. My fingers got very numb, but that made me all the more thankful that I could lay this sucker down and ride it’s mechanical brains out.

Overall, if you’re looking for a small, travel friendly vibe, I would definitely recommend this one. While it’s not the quietest toy I’ve ever used, it has many functions that can be enjoyed in different scenarios. A huge plus for those of you who like to have fun in unexpected places.


Get the VeDo Izzy right HERE


I purchased this product with my own funds. If you wish to help me purchase more products to review head to my ‘Goodies‘ page or use the link above to purchase this product. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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B-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite

Where to start with this toy? How about HOLY FUCK?! I have become quite the anal fiend as of late and this thing brings me over the edge, literally. The first time I used this thing I had an orgasm so powerful that my partner actually asked me if I faked it because it was so unlike the others that I have. While, yes, that upset me a bit, it also made me SO excited to continue trying this toy to see what other noises it could make me make.

The B-Vibe Rimming Petite is made of 100% body safe silicone and it is splash proof for easy cleaning. It charges magnetically via USB and it has a remote that works up to 30 feet. This thing also features rotating beads in the stem of the toy (for the rimming effect) and the insertable end gives off powerful vibrations.

There are 6 bead patterns and 7 vibration patterns which are really fun to play with, most of which are only accessible through use of the remote. The whole toy measures 4.9 inches with an insertable length of 3.9 inches. The stem is 1 inch wide while the body is 1.4 inches wide. It also has a REALLY pretty travel case that’s shiny black and it’s really tough so it would be really hard to damage the toy.

I’ve only used this toy twice and both were with a partner. The first time it was just playing and intercourse, the second was during a BDSM scene. Using this toy solo or with a partner, I will wholeheartedly recommend that you start the vibrations before inserting it. While the tip is much flatter and blunter than I am use to, when the vibrations were turned on, it made my muscles relax really nice and it was able to be inserted with ease.

The first time we used it, the remote was out of batteries (unfortunately) so we were forced to use it the old fashioned way, by pressing the buttons on the bottom. This was…interesting to say the least. When inserted, it’s SNUG, so any pressing makes the sensations incredible. Whenever my partner would press the button to change the settings, I was so wiggly from the feeling, that I hardly noticed the speed/tempo change in the toy.

We managed to get some new batteries the second time and boy did that make a world of difference. Not only does the remote do things that pressing the button cannot, my partner/dom was able to right torture me with that thing. It was amazing. The speeds that this can get to are amazing. It is such a night and day experience from a non vibrating butt plug, that’s for sure.

My only TEENY TINY negatives about it are only about the rotating beads. It is a tad noisy due to the rimming beads. That’s pretty much to be expected though. I have yet to come across a ‘beaded’ toy that doesn’t make a racket. Also, I sort of wish the beads were a bit bigger. Once you turn on the vibrations, I can’t really tell that it’s a rotating effect, and instead it just feels like a continuation of the vibrations (not that that’s a bad thing!).

Since, there is absolutely nothing seriously negative that I can say about this toy, all I can end with is BUY IT. If you like having your butt played with, this is a must have for your collection. If you’re looking to start training for bigger sizes, again, MUST HAVE! This toy comes in 2 more sizes and you bet your ass I’m going to have (and be able to wear) all 3 in the near future. This toy has made me desperately want to try the rest of the B-Vibe toys. Now excuse me while I make a B-Vibe wish list….


You can find this amazing booty toy HERE


I purchased this product with my own funds. If you wish to help me purchase more products to review head to my ‘Goodies‘ page. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!


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Kinks and Fetishes

I’ve been trying to talk a lot more about me, and what better way for you to get to know me than by learning about my kinks? I am a submissive by nature but since becoming more of a kinkster I have learned that my TRUE love is being a Little. Now, I don’t like age play, but everything else that comes from being a little (feeling small, weak, protected, owned, etc) makes me feel amazing. Although, something I have really taken to heart lately is this quote: “Remember, labels are for soup cans, not for people.” – tequilarose.

I may identify as a ‘little’ but my spectrum of kinks/fetishes is very broad. Yes, most of the things that I enjoy, I do get from being a little, but there are also some things that are just very arousing for me. Also, being pansexual, I can get my thrill from all genders, not just males. Some of the main things that I love, do involve strength, which, as of right now, I have only found in masculine people. Femmes, step on up! I am ready!

The List

Choking

To me, choking is fairly basic, not that that’s a bad thing. I love it and I know a LOT of people who also enjoy it. Testing the limits of your body and putting your total trust in another human is so powerful. Your life is, literally, in the other persons hands. If that doesn’t scream submission, I don’t know what does.

Anal

I am still fairly new to anal, but(t) I am already obsessed. As I have mentioned MANY times before, my orgasms don’t come easy, however, with anal sex my orgasms are a lot more common. The last time I did anal, I almost came simply from the act itself. The addition of any toy would have put me over the edge. Unfortunately, I still have a bit of a sizing issue as is the case with most anal newbies. Whenever I go up a size in whatever object I am putting back there, I tend to bleed a bit, which is totally ok, as long as it’s not a horrifying amount. I guess I just have to keep working on it!

Biting

Biting is my jam. I love giving and receiving bites. I love soft nibbles and being bitten until I bleed. There’s not much else to say about that. Bite my lip, neck, ear, nipples, thighs, feet, I don’t care, I love it all.

Nipple Play

Nipple play has always been a strange thing for me. Because of past trauma, I don’t do gentle. I like my nipples played with rough and greedy. I am a huge fan of nipple clamps, pinching, biting (see above), and other various other forms of nipple aggression. One of my VERY favorite things is when someone reaches up the front of my shirt and plays with them. Just in case anyone ever wonders why I love crop tops and no bra, that’s why.

Forced Submission (Consensual Non-Consent)

Out of respect of the people who might be triggered by this type of kink, I won’t go into too much detail about CNC or my specific history with it. For me, it’s just all about domination. Going into a scene or a situation where I know that I am going to be dominated 100% is so thrilling.

Restraints/Being Restrained

Everyone interprets the ‘restraints’ kink differently. Some people really enjoy rope play, others might only enjoy wearing cuffs on occasion, but I enjoy all of it…to an extent. I am not a huge fan of being fully restrained, but I do enjoy wrist and ankle restraints of any kind, as well as wearing a collar (but that really…TIES…into the choking category). However, take off the cuffs and rope to use your hands and/or your body to keep me restrained, you will get no objection from me of ANY kind.

Group Sex/Worship

One of my absolute biggest kinks is group sex, specifically where I am the center of attention at some point or another. To have multiple peoples mouths, hands, and other various body parts on me is…phenomenal. It makes me feel like such a goddess. Some part of me thinks it’s because I’m submissive, and to be under the control of multiple humans at the same time gives me some sort of sexual, sensory overload. Another part of me just thinks it’s because I’m a needy little bitch.

Impact Play

Slap me, spank me, flog me, really just do whatever you want to me.

Arms/Hands

I have ALWAYS been a huge fan of bulky arms and large hands (masc or femme!). I really have no idea why, but who the fuck cares. Arms fresh from working out is my favorite, when the veins are all bulgy and they’re all sweaty….mmmm. Excuse me for a minute.