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How to Clean Your Sex Toys (Spices of Lust)

Cleanliness is next to godliness, and when it comes to keeping your sex toys clean, it is an act of god. A mandatory exercise! Because no matter how much pleasure you derive from it, the toy needs to be squeaky clean and ready to use on the go!


So how do we go ahead and keep them clean and sparkling?
This has been a question on our minds for a long time. Please remember, just water will not do, that dildo needs to be germ-free before it touches your nerves. The reason is plain and simple- our bodies, no matter how incredible they are, are a hive for the germs.


Be it the tongue or the vagina, they provide not just the moment of madness but plenty of microorganisms too. While that doesn’t mean the body is a bag full of dirt, the possibility of a bacterial buildup on the toys is for real.


The benefit of regularly cleaning the toys are manifold, it keeps them well serviced and hence the longevity. When they are serviced well, their performance will speak for itself. No woman would want her best rabbit vibrator shut off in the middle of a climax. The idea is to be as careful as possible. While you may want the sex to be dirty, you surely will not want the toys to be dirty too.


The ideal routine is to wash them before every use as well as after the use. Every sex toy comes with cleaning instructions and that needs to be followed. Also, the cleaning instructions vary with the material.

What Cleans What and How?

  • If it is made of silicone, glass, or wood and has a motor attached to it, the best way to get rid of those pestering microbes is with an antibacterial soap. After you have washed it well, wipe it clean with a dry cloth.
  • If it’s silicone, stainless steel, or stone and does not have a motor attached to it, hot water does the trick. Place them under hot water for a full 10 minutes and the results would be fruitful. One can run it through the dishwater too without even need of the soap. The steam will take care of the germs.
  • Leather gives you pleasure. However, it is also an exotic material and needs a lot of attention. The product needs to be wiped with a damp cloth soaked in soap. One can also use a leather cleaner. Friendly advice, never soak the leather. It will lose its texture and softness forever. After it has been cleaned, use a leather conditioner to recondition it. Leather toys have metal parts attached to it. To protect them from rusting, use nail polish. One cleaning hack that has never failed.

However, probably the best way to clean your sex toys are special toy cleaning products, but also not all of them. Antibacterial soaps as well as alcohol that can be found in many sex toy cleaning products can dry out your sex toy. When buying a sex toy cleaner, you should keep an eye on several ingredients. We recommend avoiding alcohol, triclosan, parabens and glycerine as those are harsh chemicals and can be harmful to your body.


In case you’re wondering which one is a good choice, here’s one – Intimate Earth Green Foaming Toy Cleaner, sold by MedAmour. And not only are the ingredients great, but this cleaner does a great job with silicone, glass and stainless steel toys.

Why the fuss?

Sex toys are primarily tools that will be used over the human body and some, a few inches inside. That makes them high precision tools of sorts. Pun apart, before buying a sex toy, remember to check how body safe is it. Or whether the material that has been used to build these toys are safe for the human body.


Materials like jelly, Cyberskin, vinyl and rubber should best be avoided, they are porous and generally difficult to maintain. Porous materials have pockets within their structure that can collect body fluids, which is a conducive environment for germs. That is why, non-porous objects are easy to maintain, and hence they last longer too.


Should you use toys made of said materials, we recommend using condoms. Not only are they almost impossible to clean, but materials like vinyl and rubber can contain dangerous chemicals (phthalates) which are dangerous for your skin. So the best you can do is to stay away.


Nothing works better than boiling. Simply insert the toys into a mug of boiling water and let it take care of all the germs that. Be careful of some toys though. And this is important for the ones which have a motor attached to it, check whether it is detachable. If yes, the battle is won. Separate, splash the part minus the motor into hot water. Take it out and wipe it clean.


Lovemaking is a pleasurable experience and a memorable one too, if everything planned stays on course. However, safety trumps all, and with our how to keep sex toys clean advisory, you can go one notch up and turn it harder.


Spices of Lust is a blog created by Leja and Luka, a couple in their mid-20’s. Initially, Spices of Lust was supposed to be a place to share our journey exploring sexuality, but it evolved to be so much more. Both of them enjoy crafting content related to sex and that is why, their blog is home to many guides, ideas, sex toy reviews, and occasional erotic stories. Since they moved to the US, not even 2 years ago, Spices of Lust gained traction and got picked in Top 100 sex blogs of 2019 as well as Top 10 new blogs of 2019. When they are not taking pictures of dildos or writing about floggers, Luka enjoys cooking and Leja enjoys eating. Find them online @spicesoflust

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No Mud, No Lotus: The Downside of Submission and Why I Wouldn’t Change a Thing (Holly Deeply)

My name is Holly and I am submissive. I know, it sounds like a 12-step introduction, but submission is a very particular sexual identification in the BDSM community and I am rather proud of that association. I did not choose submission or this lifestyle; I am submissive and I am a part of the lifestyle whether I participate actively or not. In fact, I eat, breath, sleep, write about, fantasize about, and feel submission in every aspect of my life. I use what I have learned through submissive play in both my personal and professional life.


However, as with many things in life, submission comes with suffering. To say I wasn’t prepared for the disappointments is an understatement. But as the Buddhists say, “no mud, no lotus.” If we know how to use the mud, or pain, we can learn to grow beautiful lotuses, or joy. We cannot seek or focus on pleasure exclusively as we may begin to believe emotional pain is something to avoid at all costs. There are lessons in that pain, and I’m about to share some of mine.

SUB FRENZY

Sub frenzy is a crazy roller coaster ride that comes with no warning. It was like a switch had turned on and all of my senses were suddenly alive and raw. I became unhinged and my inner slut emerged. I hungered for Domination. I didn’t care if He ever wanted to see me again, I simply never wanted the feeling to end. Every bite, slap, orgasm, and bruise sent me into a state of euphoria more pleasurable than anything I had experienced. I wanted to be used 24/7. I lacked discernment and I did not ask appropriate questions. As a result, I placed myself into some very unsafe situations that I am grateful to have come out of unharmed.


Along with meeting with Dominants, I was reading everything I could get my hands on regarding the various types of submissives and the kinds of relationships that existed. I joined Fetlife and started learning about kinks. All I wanted to do was talk about my newfound self, but I didn’t have any friends in the lifestyle. I had read about a term called “subsister,” but how the hell was I supposed to make female friends when all I cared about is being choked, gagged, spanked, and disciplined? Frenzy is this crazy, slutty little minx that wants her way and doesn’t care about the consequences.

Frenzy may come and go for a submissive, but for me it lasted almost a year. It wasn’t until I experienced a particular Dominant that my mind quieted and I understood what I am and who I was meant for. I saw and felt my purpose so clearly that frenzy subsided. It was a relief, to be honest. Now that I am out of frenzy, I can see its importance and see how pivotal it was in shaping me as a submissive. I was free and open and I didn’t have any judgments about what I would or wouldn’t do. Playtime was my classroom and I wanted a PhD in submission. Now I know my submission is constantly evolving and there is no limit on what I can learn or experience.

FRIENDSHIPS ENDED

During sub frenzy, I wanted to tell everyone about this fantastic thing I had discovered about myself. My passion for BDSM was oozing from every pore in my body. I was so overwhelmed and excited, I didn’t realize – or remember – how closed minded most of society is about sexual taboos. Until the fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) was released in 2013, BDSM was considered a deviant behavior and could warrant loss of children in a custody battle. BDSM was not dinner table conversation and there are a lot of misconceptions of the lifestyle.


Regardless of that fact, I began telling friends of my new found self, and I was met with both negative and inflammatory reactions. I was called a slut, a sex addict, a doormat, ignorant, and stupid among other things. I was confused at their responses. These were my friends and they knew me. Some said I was going through a phase and it would pass, mid-life crisis even. I was given an ultimatum from my best friend at the time to get professional help or the friendship would end.


There was nothing medically wrong with me and that I was a consenting adult, so the friendship ended. To be judged, labeled and abandoned for my sexual preference was humiliating, and it opened up a new world of understanding regarding all types of lifestyles. This was a really painful lesson and I learned to stay quiet and hide. I learned that no matter how progressive the world may seem, conversations around sexual behaviors and practices are still very uncomfortable for most individuals, and here I was singing the praises of ropes and riding crops. I had to make new friends. BDSM is about community and sharing experiences, and this journey is not meant to be taken alone. Slowly, I began to find new, kinky friends and I felt safe discussing my needs and asking questions.

FINDING A PARTNER

I was recently single after a 19 year marriage and I was re-entering the dating pool in the age of technology. It was scary as fuck, and I felt so far out of my comfort zone. But it was dating that led to my discovery of BDSM and my unbridled passion for it. A chance conversation with a man I had been seeing changed my life forever. We explored a bit of bondage and I experienced surrender for the very first time. The freedom and release I experienced in that singular moment was a rebirth. I was forever changed I could not go back to vanilla sex.


I began to read about submission the next day and I joined Fetlife. It didn’t take long before the messages came flooding in (Dominants love a newbie submissive). There are also a few dating sites that are for kink minded individuals. I have had success with both Kinkd and Feeld. That being said, on all three sites, anyone can say they are Dominant and they can say they are looking for exactly the same things. I learned the hard way most Dominants just want to play and do not want the responsibility that goes along with engaging with a submissive – I will get to that subject later on.

There was a lot of excitement around potential partners that was followed by heartbreak. No matter how well I communicated my desires and needs, I was left with the same result after playtime; silence. Finding a good match is extremely difficult. Dating conversations in the kink realm generally begin with, “so what are you looking for?” Sex is usually the first topic on the table and it all begins to look like a negotiation. I learned that if our kinks and sexual desires didn’t align, I didn’t want to take the time to meet. I learned to ask questions like, “how do you manage sub drop,” and “have you ever had a D/s relationship?” I learned to feel into my intuition and energy and pick up on social cues from the very first message.


In the beginning, however, I was hungry for attention and domination. Sub frenzy is insatiable and she wants whatever interaction she can get. But I learned to place some very strict boundaries around offering myself to a Dominant. Submission is a gift we present to a deserving partner. It is not something to be demanded in the first conversation. No, I will not be calling you Sir or Master from the start. I have learned to say no and trusted a gentleman would show himself eventually.

SUB DROP

The most painful aspect of submission for me is sub drop. Sub drop is an emotional and physical experience that mirrors depression. It is a result of crashing hormones after a very intense scene with a partner. It can also occur when a relationship ends with a Dominant. Drop can range from mild symptoms of fatigue to overwhelming feelings of dread and physical pain. The first time I experienced sub drop I had no idea what was happening to me. I felt confused, depressed, scared, unworthy, shame, physical pain, exhaustion, and bewilderment.


I had engaged in several scenes with one particular Dominant over a three week period. Our sessions were intense and sex was transcendent, leaving me floating on clouds for days. There was not enough time in between our sessions for me to come down, so when I finally experienced a drop, it was like crashing into a brick wall and I was alone. The Dominant neither warned me of drop nor supported me through it. He did not return my messages or calls and was completely unavailable to me. His silence added to my feelings of shame and abandonment. It was another Dominant friend that noticed what was happening and he guided and supported me while I navigated my way out of it. I am forever grateful for his assistance and his selfless act of service toward me.


Each submissive experiences drop differently, and the time frame ranges for each of us. What I have learned about myself is that I experience a drop three to five days after a scene, depending on its intensity. So while a Dominant is cuddling me after our session that very same night believing he is giving me after care, I don’t generally want closeness at that time. I am still in a euphoric state feeling all the sensations in my body; I am energized, alert and over stimulated. Any effort of care and connection at that time are somewhat lost on me. I now try to take some of that affection in as I know what will happen to me in the days to come. Regardless of whether I receive after care in the coming days from a partner or not, I have incorporated some practices to care for myself. I make sure to rest, drink lots of water, eat properly for my body, and get gentle exercise. I try to get outside in the sun and walk. I take baths and indulge in self care.


Submissives become another version of themselves during drop and our behavior is quite unpredictable during this time. We will say and feel ridiculous things about ourselves and our partners. We may even act out and seek pleasure or attention from another Dominant to fill the perceived void. This need for validation and reassurance is intense and as important as air. Not every Dominant is willing to guide us through this critical time, but they should be. It is ok to be needy and scared and crave affection and attention. It is ok to feel bad about what happened during a scene and to question our desires and values. What is not okay is for the Dominant to be unavailable during this time. This was an extremely difficult learning curve for me, and I have accepted that there are no guarantees a partner will be able to meet your needs after a session.

NO MUD, NO LOTUS

Despite all that I have highlighted above, being submissive is who I am; this lifestyle is not a choice for me.. The lows of this journey are as equally important as the highs, and the growth I have experienced is priceless. I have learned to communicate my needs, to create boundaries and, most importantly, how to say no. I have forged some beautiful relationships with Dominants, submissives and myself. And the most profound aspect is that the journey never ends. I evolve as a human when I put myself out there and take risks. I have learned to use my suffering as a gateway to understanding and realizing true happiness. No mud, no lotus my friends.


Holly Deeply is a submissive/sacred slut living in Southern California. Writing allows her to share her experiences and passion for BDSM. Healing through D/s play and writing about it is something she hopes to inspire in others living their truth through submission.

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Vibease Ruby

The Vibease Ruby is, interesting. There are many toys that have this similar ‘tickler’ design, but the Ruby had been fully designed beautifully. It’s a gorgeous piece to look at, but that’s about where the praise stops.

The Ruby is made of a silky smooth silicone. The main body of the toy is firmer while the 2 silicone ear pieces are more flexible and squishy. The base of the toy is chiseled to be similar to that of a gem, or ruby (hence the name), which makes the whole toy easy to hold onto.

While in use, the ears are actually quite disappointing. Yes they flutter and buzz as expected, but for something that goes against the delicate skin of the labia, they aren’t as soft as they should be. The tips are very nice as pinpoint stimulation against the clitoris and the nipples, but accidentally press too hard, or slip a bit, and you’ll find yourself getting jabbed in a not so pleasant manner.

You charge it via USB jack plug, which is located on the side of the toy, and the base flashes when charging. It takes about an hour to charge, but on a full charge, you can use it for up to 3 hours! From an outsiders perspective, that may seem amazing, but as soon as you turn it on and feel the hand numbing buzz, you can immediately tell why the battery life is so long.

For a toy that’s almost $70, I’d definitely expect a better motor. The motor within this toy is similar to your run of the mill bullet, which is much cheaper, and will give you the same results. You could even spend about $10 and get something like the Tango, which has an incredible motor, and won’t make your clit numb. However, the motor in the Ruby does make the pinpoint stimulation quite nice. I wouldn’t scoff at someone using this toy on me for some serious foreplay.

The various patterns are actually pretty nice. If the toy had a better motor, I would definitely say that these are some of my favorite vibration patterns I’ve experienced. There are a grand total of 7 options, 3 of which are just different intensities. You to cycle through them by pressing the very small, and difficult to feel, power button (shown in the first image).

Some of the things that you can do with this toy, besides using the quivering ears, is using it just like a regular ol’ bullet. If you turn it on it’s side, with the ears pressed together against your body, you can use the end of the base (where the motor is).

While this toy isn’t something I would recommend for someone who enjoys rumble vibes, I would have to say that it is quite versatile. Unfortunately, the motor quality does not line up with the price point of a toy like this, but it’s still a good option for a body safe, rechargeable, beautifully designed, toy.


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I was sent the Ruby by Vibease in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Tailz Pink Bunny Tail Vibrating Anal Plug

This plug is SO much fun! It’s adorable and super powerful. This plug is perfect for all forms of anal play: vanilla, pet play, etc. I am so thrilled to have this in my collection. Might not use it all that often since the size is really intimidating, but it’s definitely a conversation starter!

The Tailz Plug is made of body safe silicone and the bunny poof is made of synthetic fibers. It is splash proof but not submersible, so you can wash it thoroughly but it’s not wise to use this for water play. It is rechargeable via usb plug with a charge time of 60 minutes. You can get up to 90 minutes of play per charge depending on the vibration levels. Plus it comes with a really nice remote so once it’s in, either you or your partner can play with the 3 speeds and 7 patterns.

Unfortunately, the thing that makes this toy so adorable is also one of the biggest negatives. While the tail is adorable, it’s kind of a pain in the ass (pun intended). The power button and the jack are both located almost directly underneath the poof ball. When you go to charge it it’s almost impossible not to get some of the fibers stuck in the plug, which makes me super paranoid.

The good definitely outweighs the bad with this toy. I am a huge fan of the shape of the base since it sits perfectly between my cheeks and doesn’t put any pressure against them. It’s very comfortable. Plus the velvety softness of the silicone makes it a very gentle experience when slipping it in (even if the widest part gets a bit rough). The remote is amazing and works so well, even with the toy inside a body. Plus, the remote controls everything from speed to vibration modes and the buttons are nicely labeled for minimal confusion.

Overall, I would absolutely recommend the Tailz Anal Plug. The tail is adorable (while not totally functional), the materials are extremely high quality, and the size is excellent for those wanting to expand their anal training. Plus its super fun to use with a partner and extra fun if you wanna feel like an adorable little bunny for a little while.


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I was sent the Tailz Pink Bunny Tail Vibrating Anal Plug for free by Naughty Betty’s in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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We-Vibe Tango

The We-Vibe Tango is a toy that I have wanted to try for a long time. I was in the group of people who got their start with sex toys by buying cheap bullet vibes and ever since I have gotten into the sex industry, I have been trying to find a toy that recreates the enjoyment I got out of those. This is it. It has the power of the classic corded bullets with the upgraded technology of We-Vibe.

The Tango is made from body safe ABS plastic and is rechargeable via magnetic USB (with its own charging cap!). Each charge takes approximately 90 minutes and you get a whole 120 minutes on a single charge. Plus, it’s completely waterproof so you can enjoy all 8 vibration modes in any situation.

Out of all the ‘discreet’ type toys that I have tried, this one has quickly become my favorite. It’s super quiet and the design of it makes it super easy to use. The flat side is amazing for holding in place, flat against your body and the finer point makes it feel great for precision stimulation.

Unfortunately, with most small toys, my biggest complaint is, in fact, the size. Plus the fact that it gets a little bit slippery to hold once the juices start flowing makes it slightly frustrating. A design suggestion I might make for this higher end toy would be to have a better grip and maybe make a slightly larger version of it.

I HIGHLY recommend this toy overall. It’s absolutely perfect for a small nightstand toy. It’s so powerful but also very quiet. I definitely will recommend this to anyone who is looking for a small, rechargeable toy that is body safe and higher quality.


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I was sent the We-Vibe Tango for free by MedAmour in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Master Series Coveted Leather Collar and Nipple Clamp Set

The Coveted Leather Collar and Nipple Clamp Set is fairly basic in the kink gear. It’s something that I think is a great starter set for those just diving into BDSM. Remove the nipple clamps, you have a nice sturdy collar! It’s very versatile.

The collar and clamp set is made of leather and metal. The 2 nipple clamps are secured to the collar via 12 inch chains which is long enough for a variety of body types. On me, they were even a little loose, so even larger breasted folx can use this. According to the packaging and website, the collar fits neck sizes 14 to 18 inches…sort of.

The really great thing about this set is the quality. It’s very well made. I have a few Master Series products and they have all held up very well. Also, I really love the kind of clamps that are on the collar. They are really adjustable to any kind of pressure you want on your nipples. The thing that is pretty lackluster is the sizing. It says that it fits up to 18 inches, which isn’t entirely true. I know that this collar is supposed to be slightly tight for the control and submission that the whole set brings, but my neck is 18 inches loose and this collar is way too tight even at the largest fixing.

If you’re looking for beginner kink gear, this is definitely a really good option. You get the experience of wearing a collar, plus nipple clamps, so you’ll get a whole load of use out of it. The quality alone makes it worth it and it’s small enough that if you’re short on space for a trip, you can just tuck it away neatly.


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I was sent the Leather Collar and Nipple Clamp Set for free by Naughty Betty’s in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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VeDO Izzy

The VeDO Izzy is the perfect ‘budget’ clitoral vibe. Not only is VeDo an amazing brand but their motors are the strongest I’ve seen in a budget collection. It’s also one of the first vibes I’ve had where I didn’t have to smash it against my body, so color me impressed. This might just be my favorite go-to travel vibe.

The Izzy is made of a super smooth, body safe silicone. It is rechargeable via USB plug and it is completely submersible. There is a single power button which cycles through all 10 of the unique vibration modes and if you double press the button quickly, it turns on travel lock, so you’ll never have to worry about it buzzing in your luggage.

The shape of this thing is a little odd, but in a great way. It’s not what I expected upon looking at the box, but as soon as I held it for the first time, I understood why it was designed that way. The whole thing actually looks a little phallic, and in a way it kind of reminds me of the shape of my cat when she’s sitting down. The larger base with the power button and the charge port are shaped perfectly to fit in the palm of your hand, while the thinner vibration end is able to slip between your labial folds with ease.

Along the narrow end, there is a squishy silicone nub and it is fantastic! I really thought I wouldn’t like it, or it would just get in the way, but the way that this toy is designed made it extremely useful. The thing that I find most interesting about the Izzy is that it is rideable. This isn’t just your average bullet vibe. This is a toy that you can actually place on a surface, and the shape plus the added stimulation nub, makes it wonderful and easy to use for all body types.

As I’ve mentioned before, I’m not a huge fan of the variety of vibration patterns on most toys, but every once in a while I’ll come across one that I fall in love with. With the Izzy that pattern was the almost heartbeat like pulse. It allowed me to get into an amazing rhythm with my stroking and because it mimicked my heartbeat, my mind automatically associated the feeling with being aroused. It made it so easy to cum which is definitely a positive for me.

The thing that I really dislike is, surprisingly, the motor, or more specifically the design plus the motor. The motor is extremely strong. While usually this a wonderful thing, paired with a toy that is quite short, makes things tricky. Because the motor is so strong, you can feel it throughout the whole toy at full blast, so it made holding onto it for a long period of time, difficult. My fingers got very numb, but that made me all the more thankful that I could lay this sucker down and ride it’s mechanical brains out.

Overall, if you’re looking for a small, travel friendly vibe, I would definitely recommend this one. While it’s not the quietest toy I’ve ever used, it has many functions that can be enjoyed in different scenarios. A huge plus for those of you who like to have fun in unexpected places.


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Sweet Vibrations – tuLips

The Sweet Vibrations tuLips is one of the more unique toys I’ve experienced. On the outside, it just kind of looks like your average palm or clitoral vibe. This toy is so much more than that though. The design of it and the vibrations feel wonderful!

The tuLips is made of a silky smooth silicone. It’s not amazingly flexible but it is still flexible enough to feel good against your body. It is waterproof to an extent so washing it thoroughly and using it in the shower is perfectly fine. There are 5 speeds and 10 vibration patterns. The toy is rechargeable via usb prong and the charge lasts up to 2 hours!

This is an amazing partner vibe. It is slim enough that it can fit between two bodies and the ridges that surround the clit are also flexible, so any amount of friction won’t be painful, which is a plus. With the tiny silicone bump at the tip of the toy, the vibrations hit your whole clit with ease. It also works for different types of stimulation movement. I was able to stroke, flick, press, and anything else you can think of to do with your clit with this toy.

I will admit, I was a bit worried. These contoured vibes have a hard time with buzz distribution. Most of the time, the vibrations are felt all over the toy, usually making my hand go numb, and making the toy hard to hold on to once any lubrication is present. This one is actually really nice. The vibrations stay right where they need to be.

When I turned on the toy, I was also a bit worried about the type of vibrations. Just holding it, it seems like the vibrations are fairly buzzy, but once it’s against your body, they turn into a nice rumble. This, combined with the shape of the toy, made it super easy, both times I used it, to cum multiple times. Those of you who have followed my story know that’s fairly uncommon, so that is a HUGE bonus.

The one negative that I will say is that the location of the buttons is a bit frustrating. For me, when I was using the toy, I found that my hand naturally settled on the area with the buttons. This became a bit of an issue when things got really heated and I would end up pressing the buttons, changing the settings. Also, when you have a foggy head from arousal, the buttons can be a bit hard to figure out because they’re really close together.

I am in love with this company. Sure their toys have some issues, but the cost, quality, and customer service, is really hard to beat. Also, all the toys I’ve tried so far are super unique, which, in this day and age, is relatively uncommon. PLUS they have a forever warranty, so there’s really no reason not to give them a try.

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Paloqueth – Devil Eye – Triple Vibrator

The Paloqueth Devil Eye Triple Vibrator is probably the most interested toy I have ever tried. It’s a triple threat, literally. It has clitoral, vaginal, and anal stimulation. It’s just a really fun, unique, product.

The Devil Eye Triple Vibrator is rechargeable via magnetic USB. Because of this, it is totally submersible for approximately 30 minutes. It is made of a very silky, smooth, squishy silicone. It has separate motors for all three pieces so each stimulator has amazing power. The main gem button turns the toy on, the top one controls the 7 patterns, and the bottom button controls speed.

The internal, g-spot vibe, is so flexible and squishy. It’s wonderful. The motor is not buzzy at all, in fact its the best sort of rumbly. Plus, the motor is directly up against where the g-spot is so it gets nice and stimulated. Also, because of its placement, the motor gives the wand a nice girth. Since it’s so squishy though, it’s not rough against your body like some other, girthier toys can be.

The anal tickler is also very flexible and very squishy. It’s also shaped like a tiny little tentacle, so if that’s your jam, this toy is definitively for you. When I used this that was the one thing that was kind of difficult. Because of how small, narrow, and flexible this piece is, it was sort of hard to actually get it inside the anus, so it actually had to be placed in once the other pieces were in place.

The bunny clitoral stimulator is your average rabbit clit vibe. It’s squishy and it has the two little ear ticklers. It was just ok. It wasn’t anything to write home about. It was actually probably the least impressive thing about this toy. It was pretty flexible and squishy, but unfortunately, not enough for me. Like most of the other clitoral vibes, it pressed against my clit too hard and actually ended up hurting.

This brings me to the fun part. This is the part where I tell you how it felt when all three portions were rumblin and inside me. I had to get my partners help (which he was totally on board for) to use this toy, because, like a lot of other toys, I have a relatively hard time reaching my bits due to my belly and larger labia. My partner used this on me doggy style and he ended up having to hold the clitoral part away from my body. I just ended up stimulating my clit with my fingers, which still gave me the most intense orgasm that I’ve had in a very long time because of the anal stimulation and the internal vaginal stimulation.

Overall, this is probably the weirdest, but most unique toy I have ever used. It’s definitely earned a spot in my permanent collection. Buy this toy! It’s a perfect toy for those extra kinky urges.


I was sent the Devil Eye Triple Vibrator for free in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!


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Sweet Vibrations – The Perfect Match

The perfect match is, quite literally, my perfect match. I usually hate rabbit vibes but this one was the first one I’ve ever been able to get off to the way it was intended. This whole company has been so wonderful. Even their packaging is gorgeous! Every toy comes with a nicely organized instruction packet, a usb charge cable, a very sturdy storage bag, AND a spare usb wall plug. It’s still blowing my mind.

The Perfect Match is made of a super soft and flexible medical grade silicone. It is rechargeable with a charge that lasts up to 2.5 hours, so you can use this product uninterrupted for a really long time. It’s also waterproof, so, like me, if you want to experiment with your favorite toys in the bath or shower, you can. It 10 vibration patterns and each tip has its own motor, so you’re never at a loss for power.

I don’t know if there’s anything extremely negative to say about this, so I think I’ll just get that out of the way first. Maybe the one thing I’ll say is at the handle could be a little bit bigger or a little bit longer. When the toy is fully inside me and I’m drenched, it can be a bit hard to hold onto. Also, the button seems to be in a fairly awkward place. When I REALLY get into using it, sometimes I find myself clicking the button, which changes the pattern, which is never good mid climax.

Overall, this toy is mostly perfect! The super flexible clitoral piece was actually able to reach my clit, which is still surprising because of my past experiences with rabbit vibes. Usually rabbit vibes either don’t reach my clit, or they end up hurting because of the lack of flexibility. Also, the internal vibe was wonderful. It’s perfectly shaped and, while still being very flexible, it is sturdy enough to hit my g-spot with ease. With there being 2 separate motors, one in each tip, I was able to feel the vibrations throughout my bits. Plus, the vibrations are a very nice rumble, versus a clit numbing buzz. The patterns also worked really well with my natural rhythm.

If you didn’t get it from the rest of this post, you should buy this toy!! You should honestly buy everything from Sweet Vibrations because they are, somehow, revolutionizing sex toys for all bodies. Their toys, this one specifically, are comfortable for anyone and the quality is amazing. Also, you can’t complain about body safe toys being expensive, because this thing will only set you back $40 WITH a lifetime warranty!


From now until the end of February 2020, you can get 15% off your order by using the code ‘PINKSPACE’ here!


I was sent the Perfect Match for free in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!