I’ve been trying to talk a lot more about me, and what better way for you to get to know me than by learning about my kinks? I am a submissive by nature but since becoming more of a kinkster I have learned that my TRUE love is being a Little. Now, I don’t like age play, but everything else that comes from being a little (feeling small, weak, protected, owned, etc) makes me feel amazing. Although, something I have really taken to heart lately is this quote: “Remember, labels are for soup cans, not for people.” – tequilarose.
I may identify as a ‘little’ but my spectrum of kinks/fetishes is very broad. Yes, most of the things that I enjoy, I do get from being a little, but there are also some things that are just very arousing for me. Also, being pansexual, I can get my thrill from all genders, not just males. Some of the main things that I love, do involve strength, which, as of right now, I have only found in masculine people. Femmes, step on up! I am ready!
To me, choking is fairly basic, not that that’s a bad thing. I love it and I know a LOT of people who also enjoy it. Testing the limits of your body and putting your total trust in another human is so powerful. Your life is, literally, in the other persons hands. If that doesn’t scream submission, I don’t know what does.
I am still fairly new to anal, but(t) I am already obsessed. As I have mentioned MANY times before, my orgasms don’t come easy, however, with anal sex my orgasms are a lot more common. The last time I did anal, I almost came simply from the act itself. The addition of any toy would have put me over the edge. Unfortunately, I still have a bit of a sizing issue as is the case with most anal newbies. Whenever I go up a size in whatever object I am putting back there, I tend to bleed a bit, which is totally ok, as long as it’s not a horrifying amount. I guess I just have to keep working on it!
Biting is my jam. I love giving and receiving bites. I love soft nibbles and being bitten until I bleed. There’s not much else to say about that. Bite my lip, neck, ear, nipples, thighs, feet, I don’t care, I love it all.
Nipple play has always been a strange thing for me. Because of past trauma, I don’t do gentle. I like my nipples played with rough and greedy. I am a huge fan of nipple clamps, pinching, biting (see above), and other various other forms of nipple aggression. One of my VERY favorite things is when someone reaches up the front of my shirt and plays with them. Just in case anyone ever wonders why I love crop tops and no bra, that’s why.
Forced Submission (Consensual Non-Consent)
Out of respect of the people who might be triggered by this type of kink, I won’t go into too much detail about CNC or my specific history with it. For me, it’s just all about domination. Going into a scene or a situation where I know that I am going to be dominated 100% is so thrilling.
Everyone interprets the ‘restraints’ kink differently. Some people really enjoy rope play, others might only enjoy wearing cuffs on occasion, but I enjoy all of it…to an extent. I am not a huge fan of being fully restrained, but I do enjoy wrist and ankle restraints of any kind, as well as wearing a collar (but that really…TIES…into the choking category). However, take off the cuffs and rope to use your hands and/or your body to keep me restrained, you will get no objection from me of ANY kind.
One of my absolute biggest kinks is group sex, specifically where I am the center of attention at some point or another. To have multiple peoples mouths, hands, and other various body parts on me is…phenomenal. It makes me feel like such a goddess. Some part of me thinks it’s because I’m submissive, and to be under the control of multiple humans at the same time gives me some sort of sexual, sensory overload. Another part of me just thinks it’s because I’m a needy little bitch.
Slap me, spank me, flog me, really just do whatever you want to me.
I have ALWAYS been a huge fan of bulky arms and large hands (masc or femme!). I really have no idea why, but who the fuck cares. Arms fresh from working out is my favorite, when the veins are all bulgy and they’re all sweaty….mmmm. Excuse me for a minute.