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Budget Kink

We all want to spice up our sex life once in a while, but sometimes we just don’t have the means to get super fancy. That’s why I’m writing this post. I want you to be able to have as much fun as possible, in and out of the bedroom, with your partner(s). I know there are loads of these types of posts out there, but it never hurts to have more options.

When you’re looking for new items to freshen things up, always be aware of safety. Make sure you’re not putting unsafe items into your body, or using items in a way that could injure you. For this reason, I am just going to list some of the objects that I have used in the past, and some safe ways of using said objects.

Ice Cubes

Ice cubes are REALLY fun for sensation play. Our bodies are naturally warm, so putting anything on them that immediately cools, will make for a wonderful feeling. On the body, you can run the ice cubes against the skin, or you can hold the ice cubes in your hand above your partner, letting the cold water drip on them. The latter never fails to get a really fun gasp out of me when the first drip hits my skin. For oral it’s pretty simple. Just hold the ice cube in your mouth before going to town on your partner. The ice cube will have cooled your tongue to be just different enough for an amazing feeling on the genitals.

Kitchen Utensils

Kitchen utensils work as a great introduction to impact play before investing in the more ‘normal’ or ‘kinkier’ toys. You can use silicone spatulas, wooden spoons, metal icing tool for cakes, etc. The options are pretty limitless. Just keep in mind safety, as I have mentioned before and will continue mentioning until I am blue in the face. Do your research. Figure out the safe zones on the body, especially when diving into any form of impact play.

Scarf, Neck Tie, Sleeping Mask, ETC

This category is very unspecific. You can use multiple items for multiple uses. You can use scarves, neck ties, a sleeping mask, or, hell, even a t shirt if you have one that is large and thin enough. Make a blindfold and play with different sensations, use a scarf or necktie to make some easy hand cuffs, the sky is the limit. There is no reason why you should need to purchase anything for these types of basic play. Plus it can be really sexy and fun.

Clothes pins

Clothes pins are…very interesting. This is something that I would only recommend for the people who can handle a little bit of pain, because they’re not gentle. My favorite way of using clothes pins is on my nipples, but ever since I got actual nipple clamps, they haven’t seen much use. Some of the other, kinkier, uses for clothes pins could be full body clamping or labial pinching. Like I said, probably not for the vanilla players, but hey, you never know if something’s your kink until you try it.

Bonus: Spanking

I really wanted to add something to this list that wasn’t an object. Spanking doesn’t require anything except a little knowledge and your hand. You might think, why spanking? Well, for one, it’s really fun, and two, it’s a lot more complicated than one might think. There’s the basic spank of hand to ass cheek, but have you thought about changing it up a bit? Play with the way your fingers are spread out, learn the different areas that are safe to spank on and around the bum. There’s so much more to spanking than just the basic way you see in movies or even in porn (because lets be fair, some porn can be fairly vanilla, unless you know where to look).


I am not an expert in anything. These are just my opinions and my experiences. If you have any questions, please do your own research and ask the proper people. I am not responsible for any injury that may or may not occur in using the objects and items mentioned above.

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Reece and Rose Bat Man Cock Ring

Holy tickling ears, Batman! This is a really fun toy. It’s fun to look at and it’s fun to play with. It makes pretty colors and turns any dick into the ‘Dark Knight’. This toy will be the pièce de résistance to your night of kinky role play.

The Bat Man Cock Ring is made from super smooth and stretchy silicone. There is an ABS plastic panel that has an indicator light, which is great for know what vibration you like. Instead of saying ‘the 3rd one’, you can simply say ‘the purple one’, or whichever color is to your liking. Speaking of vibrations, there are 10 vibration modes ranging from low and slow, to bucking bronco. This thing packs a hell of a punch.

It comes with a little, battery operated, remote for easy of play and experimenting, but the ring itself is rechargeable. It uses a USB pin so that makes it waterproof. While it’s not submersible, you can definitely take this guy into the shower or out into an extreme rain storm if that’s your jam.

Putting on the ring was easy enough. With some pre-penetration, the natural body lubrication can work just fine, but if you need a little help, just use your favorite water based lube. It’s super stretchy, as I mentioned before, so it’s great for the cock ring beginners. The remote works really well too. The response time and distance was actually quite impressive.

Unfortunately we ran into an issue when using it. My partner got flaccid IMMEDIATELY upon starting the vibrations. This has been a very strange occurrence throughout our relationship. For most penis having humans, vibrations make the orgasm quicker. For my penis having human, it makes him last SO much longer. Sometimes even makes him unable to start at all. The vibrations simply desensitize him. It’s very frustrating. Regular cock rings don’t have this effect at all.

Even though my partner CANNOT use a vibrating cock ring, it’s alright, that’s what dildos are for. On a dildo, this cock ring was great. I was able to play around with it’s location on the shaft of the dildo and figure out what works best for me. With this particular toy, it works best about halfway up the shaft, so that I got the most vibrations in the tip, against my g-spot, and I was able to get a good grind against my clit.

The only negative thing that I can give this toy is the vibration. It is VERY buzzy. It is definitely a vibration that works best with a light application versus a pressure. That, for me, just doesn’t work, but for those of you who like a good buzz, this is perfect.

While the Bat Man Cock Ring probably doesn’t go in my collection of favorite toys, I can say one thing for damn sure, BRAVO Reece and Rose! The fact that 3 out of 4 toys in your collection were knockouts is so impressive. I am so excited to try your future goodies!


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I was sent the Reece and Rose Bat Man Cock Ring for free in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Blush Novelties – Aria – Vibra Wand – Cerise

When I saw that Blush had a pink and lime toy I just HAD to get it, and I am so glad I did. This is definitely one of my favorite mini toys. This ultra mini wand is great for travel and for beginners. It packs a punch and it’s super discreet. This is a wonderful clitoral and nipple stimulation toy. Duel use is always a plus for me!

The Aria Vibra Wand is made of 100% body safe ABS plastic plus a smooth silicone vibrating head. The whole thing is so satiny and luscious. It takes 2 AAA batteries that are inserted below the twistable bottom cap. It’s ALMOST 100% waterproof. You can clean it fine, use it in the shower, and be a squirter no problem, but I would not recommend submerging it for more than a couple of seconds.

It has 5 speeds and 5 patterns. Simply hold the power button down for about 3 seconds and you’re off. The patterns aren’t mind blowing, but the speeds will get you to where you need to go. The vibration range is pretty amazing and it’s a lovely rumbly vibe instead of a ‘buzz your clit off’ vibe. That’s always a huge plus for me.

This wand is the PERFECT travel size. The whole thing is about 4.75 inches and the head is about 1.5 inches. This makes it a great size for all hands and the head is long enough for us BBWs. Plus the shape of the body makes it super easy to grip. I personally hold it like a pencil (or some other writing instrument) and use it that way to diddle myself.

I pretty big negative for me was the flexibility of the head. As I have mentioned more times than I ever thought I would, I am a clit smasher with toys. If I can’t put adequate pressure on my bean, it’s not working for me. Luckily, the silicone head isn’t attached to a super long, flexible neck, so if you just push a little bit, you can pin it against the top of the handle.

Overall I would definitely recommend this adorable ultra mini wand. It’s relatively quiet for how powerful it is so it’s great for vacation or that mid day pick me up at work. Whether you’re a beginner or wand expert, this would be a pretty amazing toy to add to your collection. There are also 4 different color combinations, so it fits anyone’s style! Also, with a 5 year warranty, why not give it a try!?


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I was sent the Aria Vibra Wand for free in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!