The Bed Geek Play:Three is their newest wand evolution after the Play:One and, obviously, the Play:Two. It features a diamond shape pattern on the handle and a smaller, more powerful, head. There are so many options to play with on this thing. You’ll never get bored!
The Play:Three is made of medical grade silicone and is super soft to hold. The toy is rechargeable and it comes with a USB charging cable. Being waterproof and splash proof, the charging port is on the bottom of the toy, through a silicone flap. It’ll begin blinking to let you know that it’s charging. It features 20 vibration patterns and 8 vibration intensities which are controlled by the 2 buttons above the power button.
This wand had a super small head. It makes it really easy to maneuver and fit into tighter vulva spaces. The head isn’t too flexible which, for me, is a huge bonus. I was easily able to put pressure on all the right areas. Also, once I found a spot that I loved, the small head made it easy to keep it there, which, honestly, has been an issue with a few other toys.
A thing that I really loved about this toy was the fact that even when the toy was on high, you could barely feel the vibrations in the handle. I know in a lot of other toys, the place where you put your hand to hold it vibrates so much that your hand or fingers end up going numb. That isn’t an issue at all with this. It must have something to do with the diamond shaped pattern in the silicone.
This wand has a SUPER buzzy motor. Even on the lowest setting it was just an intense buzz. When you turn it on, it starts at the highest setting, so it’s a bit startling at first. I am much more of a rumble vibe lover, so I was not a huge fan, but it definitely works if you need to get off in a pinch.
Unfortunately, because of the powerful buzzy motor, this toy is VERY loud. It’s not as loud as other wands, but pretty loud none the less. It’s not subtle at all. It sounds like a high powered electric toothbrush. Honestly, I would rather feel the vibrations in the handle of a toy than one that’s this loud.
Are there other mini wands that do it better? Sure, but for $29.99 this is a good option for a beginner wand vibe. It really depends on the kind of vibrations you like. The buzziness is way too intense for me and the noise makes it hard to be discreet, but overall, the size and aesthetic design are great!
I will admit, when I saw this for the first time, I was skeptical. I had no idea how I would use it or how it would feel, but those thoughts vanished within a few minutes of using this toy. It is one of the most unique products I have ever used. The roller end was such a wonderful surprise and the other, vibrating g-spot wand, was perfection.
The Reece and Rose Massage Roller is made out of body safe silicone and ABS plastic. This multi-functional toy is waterproof for use in the shower. It uses a USB charging cable with a insertable connector. It takes approximately 2 hours to be fully charged from dead and runs for about an hour and half depending on levels. The whole thing is about 9 inches long. The roller end is 3 inches wide and the insertable end is 1.5 inches wide, with an insertable length of approximately 4.5 inches.
The really unexpected part is that both ends run independently. One button on one side controls the vibrations in the roller and the button on the other side controls the vibrations in the insertable wand end. That’s what makes this toy so multi-functional. You can use it as a vibrating dildo, a clitoral vibe, an actual body massager, etc. The personal and couple uses are almost endless.
The insertable, vibrating wand end is gorgeous. It’s smooth and it curves just right. The area that the vibrations come from are almost perfectly lined up with most g-spots, so you’ll get the most out of it. The tip is also a softer, squishier silicone, which means that using it as a rumbly clitoral vibe isn’t out of the question.
The rolling end is where things get…interesting, and this is the only place where I have some issues. For some reason, I thought that the roller would be motorized, but it is not. There are the vibrations, but the rolling part itself needs to be manually rolled. This gets a little tricky when trying to use the rolling part as a clitoral massager because once the roller is settled on the clit, it pretty much just rocks in place with not much moving stimulation.
Fortunately, the issues are also the positives. The fact that the roller just rocks and vibrates doesn’t suck at all. The sensation is similar to a session of heavy petting. Not a lot of wiggly diddling going on. The roller sit firmly in between the outer labia while the massaging bumps spread the vibrations over the clitoris and the entire upper portion of the vulva.
I cannot praise this toy enough. The Reece and Rose Massage Roller gives you 2 clitoral type massagers, a body massager, AND an insertable g-spot wand. It’s one of the best, body safe, rechargeable, all-in-ones I’ve ever tried. I am seriously in love with this brand. If you haven’t read my previous reviews on the Reece and Rose products you can read them here and here!
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I was sent the Reece and Rose Massage Roller for free in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!
This has got to be the most frustrating toy I have ever experienced. It is beautiful and super creative, but it just fell flat. I tried this toy 4 times with no big finish. It left me feeling frustrated and, unfortunately, a little in pain.
The Vibease Esthesia is waterproof and there are 2 motors: one in the g-spot wand and the other in the clitoral piece. The toy is Bluetooth enabled as well, so you can connect to your phone with ease. There are 5 total vibration settings in the toy, but the choices are pretty much unlimited in the app. It is USB rechargeable and has a battery life of up to 3 hours.
Ok, so the design of this thing is amazing. It looks like something out of Alice in Wonderland. The pink silicone is a beautiful shade of pink, the curves are so smooth, and the buttons are little hearts with whimsical curls etched around them. It’s like my dream toy, aesthetically. It curves just right, there are no harsh edges, and it looks like the bumps would potentially hit you in all the right spots. This did not turn out to be true.
It’s not really flexible. The g-spot wand sort of is, but the clitoris tip is hard as a rock. Not only did that actually hurt when I used is, but the fact that it’s ‘molded’ made it so the clitoral tip never actually hit my clit. It was about a half inch too low. I’m not sure what body type they used as a model, but this is definitely not an ‘all bodies welcome’ situation. Also, because of the firm clitoral piece, I couldn’t even insert the toy all of the way in without having to physically bend the piece back, and even then, the space between the 2 pieces smooshed my urethra. Ouch!
Now, on to the most unfortunate part of this toy, the vibrations. The vibrations on the Esthesia are disappointing to say the least. Like I mentioned before, the battery life on this toy is up to 3 hours, and that seems to be because the vibrations are shit. There is one lower speed, one medium speed, and one highest speed. The highest speed on this toy is comparable to the mid/low setting on a different toy. No wonder it lasts 3 hours, it’ll take you that long to get off.
The app, however, was pretty amazing. Not only did it connect to the toy super easy, but the different features were pretty awesome. You can fine tune the vibrations to an almost infinite number of options and it wasn’t too hard to figure out the basics. I didn’t buy any of the audio books, but I used the free ones available. There are 2 in particular that I use almost daily now just as regular masturbatory aid with other toys.
The website says that you can use it with music, but I could not for the life of me figure out how, or find any information on it other than the single sentence in the main sites description. That was a bit frustrating because that was the number 1 reason why I chose this toy over the original Vibease (which I am still dying to try). I even mentioned this when contacting Vibease, but nobody told me otherwise.
In the end, I was really disappointed with this toy. I can’t be expected to like everything I try, but I had heard so many great reviews about this thing that I had gotten my hopes up. The lack of flexibility and the harshness of the clitoral piece left a lot to be desired (and I’m not just talking about my lack of orgasms). However, if you are not used to sex toys, I might actually recommend this for you. The vibrations weren’t super great for a connoisseur like myself, but for someone who is new to vibrators, the lack of harsh vibrations might be just what you’re looking for.
Thank you to Vibease for sending me the Esthesia in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!
The Reece and Rose Liquid Silicone Vibe will forever be known as the vibe that gave me 2 consecutive orgasms after a 10 day, 4 sexual encounters, and 3 masturbation sessions, dry spell. Now, I won’t go into details, but I cannot express enough how amazing this toy was for me. The vibrations are perfect, it’s not so big that you can’t wiggle it around a little bit, and it lasts a long time.
The vibe is made of a super soft, flexible silicone, that allows it to bend with your body. It is USB rechargeable and completely waterproof. The battery life is actually really great as well. It only takes about an hour to charge but lasts at least an hour. There are 3 vibration speeds and 10 vibration patterns. A huge plus is that it’s not insanely complicated to figure out. There’s one button to power it and the other cycles through the speeds and patterns.
The way that it’s shaped its also really nice. It’s not too curved like most g-spot toys. It has a very gradual curve. Plus, both sides are weighted fairly evenly so there’s not a super heavy side. The end that goes inside your body with the motor is also perfectly shaped. There aren’t any weird bumps or ridges that rub against the g-spot which, for me, can get really uncomfortable. There are little, tiny waves on the back to stimulate the other side of the vaginal wall. It’s so GREAT!
It it the first g-spot vibe that has actually done it for me. I had always thought and heard that firm toys against the g-spot are what does it. Not for me. When a toy is too firm, it ends up bumping against my urethra and starts to get it irritated. Because this one is super flexible, I can just thrust and it follows my curves naturally.
Another thing I loved is that it passed the ‘clench’ test. I am a hardcore clencher and I’ve been having a hard time finding a g-spot toy that doesn’t just immediately stop upon my extreme clenching. This toy keeps on buzzing away. The fact that I could clench my way to an orgasm made this one of my favorite g-spot toys.
ANOTHER thing I love about this toy is that since the motor and the shape pair up so nicely, you can 100% use this as a clitoral stimulation toy. If, at some point, you don’t feel like having your g-spot stimulated, turn this beauty on and go to town on your clit. It’s not so flexible that you can’t get any pressure against it and the silicone is thin enough that you can actually get a lovely rumble out of it.
The ONLY negative, as with most silicone toys, is when you have quite a bit of lubrication it gets tricky to keep a hold of. Because the silicone is so smooth and satiny, any added moisture to the handle turns it into one of those old water wiggler toys. It made it a little difficult to keep a rhythm by myself.
Other than that, I would HIGHLY recommend purchasing this toy for your collection. It’s so simple and easy to use. It has so many functions and, above all, its PRETTY. The teal color that Reece and Rose has picked for their first collection is beautiful. I am, however, hoping for more of a pastel color spectrum in the long run (hint hint).
The Le Wand was sent to me by MedAmour to try and review. I am so glad they did! I had never had a ‘real’ wand before receiving it, so to be able to try this magnificent creature was such a gift. At first glance my overall impression of this thing was ‘YIKES’. That remained my opinion until my second use. This thing is a monster. It’s big and bulky, but a beautiful take on the classic ‘Magic Wand’.
The Le Wand has 10 speeds and 20 patterns! That is a whole lot of usage from one toy. This thing has a flexible, silicone head which moves with your body. It is cordless, rechargeable with use in about 3 hours, and splash proof, which means you can wash it thoroughly, but don’t use it in the bathtub. Also, even though this beast is so huge, it’s surprisingly travel friendly. It has a lock and everything. Maybe don’t bring it in a carry on, but definitely pack it in your main suitcase.
Like I said, I said ‘Yikes’ the first time I saw this, turned it on, and used it. The first time I played with it I was so intimidated. It’s very heavy, it’s huge, and it’s REALLY loud. This thing sounds like a lawn mower or an electric scooter. There’s a reason why I call it ‘monster’ and ‘beast’. The head is 2.45 inches, the whole thing is over 13 inches long, and it weighs approximately 3.1 LBS. Not a gentle creature.
Besides the size, weight, and loudness, there aren’t that many negatives about the Le Wand. It’s like the BDSM of vibrators. It hurts so good. Since it’s heavy, it is somewhat painful to hold for extended periods of time. Plus, since the motor is so powerful, not only can it numb your clit in a matter of seconds, but it can also be ripped out of your hands due to the force of the vibrations.
Another pretty major negative, for me, was the size of the silicone head. The thing has a diameter of 2.45 inches. That’s a lot of stuff to squeeze between my larger lips. It would be great if I could be one of those people who could just sit on the thing and let it work, but alas, I am not. With it’s size, I had to spread and smoosh to get it to vibrate anything other than my fat lady bits.
The second time I used it, and after realizing that there are things like the Liberator Wanda to hold it for me, I actually had a grand old time. I found that the buzziness of the wand wasn’t nearly as intense on my clit when I used a good amount of lube. Yes, as per usual, it took me about 30 minutes to finally get off, but hey, the fact that I got off at all was an accomplishment. I honestly thought this would be too much for me, but it turned out great!
Another thing is that it is AMAZING as a body massager. It’s WONDERFUL. I have a lot of tension in my back and shoulders from being an artist, so this thing comes out all the time to work out my knots. I get why this was the popular vibrator of choice back in the day. It’s so multi functional!
As much as I have come to love this wand, I would love to try it’s baby sibling, the Le Wand Petite. I feel like overall, it would be a better toy for me and my every day life. The Le Wand though, is an immediate classic. It’s beautiful, sleek, and powerful. Definitely not for masturbatory beginners, but I would go so far as to say that it’s a must have in any bedroom for all it’s various other uses.
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I was sent the Le Wand Original for free by MedAmour in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!
Recently, some of you may have noticed me talking a lot about my ‘missing’ orgasms. It’s not like I don’t have them, they are just very hard to come by. It makes me sad, mad, frustrated, and sometimes a little crazy. My own personal mental and physical health issues are huge factors, I know this, but I can’t be alone. I need to know that I am not the only person who can’t cum within mere minutes of diddling.
My solo orgasm, with a toy, took approx 25 minutes. The average ‘aroused’ vulva having person takes about 20 minutes to orgasm, while the average penis having person only takes about 5 minutes. That is just the average. In reality, I’m with a partner that has a hard time lasting 5 minutes, and I last much longer than the ‘average’ 25 minutes. Not really a great mix. We’re definitely working on it all. With him we’ve tried cock rings and other methods, which seem to be working great, so don’t feel too bad.
Some (bio)logical reasons for my lack of orgasms or difficulty finding them could be my anti anxiety meds or my PCOS. It’s fairly common for anti anxiety meds to reduce libido so that could be something to explore. I am currently taking 40mg of Prozac every day, which isn’t the highest dosage but I take it alongside Buspirone. Prozac is one of the worst SSRIs for sexual drive, so there’s really no surprise there. I am actually going to start halving my dosage gradually to see how that affects everything. Unfortunately, it can take up to 2 months to start to see any changes.
With PCOS, my hormones are all sorts of fucked up so I’m sure that plays into it sometimes. Also, with PCOS, changes in libido are very common. Low testosterone levels usually lead to a low libido. On the other hand, like me, high testosterone issues lead to high libido, but it also leads to some other not-so-attractive issues. Besides libido, PCOS may be a factor in sensitivity and mental health problems surrounding the illness.
I’ve also found that a lot of my issues come from mental blocks. My ex was abusive as I have talked about many times. He used orgasms as a ‘punishment’ when he was upset. He ended up bruising my pelvic bone a few times with how rough he was with me. I ended up having to continuously fake my orgasms just to get him to stop. As a result, I didn’t have my first partnered orgasm until a couple months into my relationship with my husband. I was sick of lying about it and I told him that I had been faking. It wasn’t until a few days ago that I really understood why.
Within the last few days I have been diving deep into my past and traumas to maybe find something there. Yes, I was abused as a child, yes, I had an extremely abusive ex, but I never saw anything there to indicate why those events were affecting what was happening now, with the exception of the fact that I still have some insecurities about whether or not I ‘deserve’ to be worshiped and given orgasms, even solo.
Most of the time I feel like my partner is getting bored or is hurting his arm/legs/jaw in some way because it’s taking too long. He has REPEATEDLY told me this is not the case. He loves making me cum no matter how long it takes because he likes to think of it as a fun challenge. One of his favorite things is watching me get off and maybe that pressure doesn’t help. The idea that I can’t a lot of the time makes me feel so self conscious and frustrated. I feel like I’m letting both of us down. I’m a sex blogger for fucks sake. My job is to have orgasms.
I also found out a weird thing. Before my accident, when I hated my body, I was entirely able to have partnered orgasms and easy solo orgasms. Now, I love my body and it’s the hardest thing in the world. Maybe before I thought about my body so entirely that the other stuff never came to mind, and now I have nothing to distract myself from the possibility of being annoying.
As for solo orgasms, I feel like a major factor in my issues with those is the expectation of an orgasm. I cannot stop thinking about what will get me off versus what feels really good. I mean, it all feel amazing, but even when I’m just playing with myself, I get the anxiety thoughts of ‘this is taking too long, you’re not normal’.
I was reading another sex blog the other day and the author was saying that 10 minutes to orgasm was a long time and it was frustrating for her. While I do understand that every body and mind is different, I would KILL to have an orgasm in 10 minutes. This is definitely the type of stuff that I should not be focusing on, but most of the time I can’t help it when thoughts like this pop into my head.
My partner has been so supportive through all of this. His sex drive isn’t as high as mine so sometimes he doesn’t really mind, but he definitely sympathizes with how frustrating this is for me, someone who used to be a 2+ times per day masturbater. While I’m waiting to see if reducing my medication dosage makes things better, we’re still going to work on everything as if that isn’t going to help. Hopefully, eventually, I can focus of the moment instead of that huge pressure to have an orgasm.
Since sex drive, wetness, and most other things that go along with ‘sexual dysfunction’ are not an issue, we’ll continue on the path of toys. Since both of my jobs are all about sex toys, I have a plethora. Changing it up seems to help, but when I’m having a particularly rough couple of weeks, I like to stick to what I know. That way there are no surprises (good or bad). This helps me stay more focused because I know what that particular toy does for me.
When I am having problems for a long period of time, the thing that has worked for me is extreme distraction. I usually blast a fan and some music just to get my mind off of life. The fan is great white noise and the music I chose usually has really harsh beats that I can find a toy or finger rhythm to.
The most important thing that I can express to anyone who is reading this who is having issues is communicate. Whether that be to a partner, a doctor, a therapist, etc, just talk. Make sure the people who need to know (and should know) what is going on inside your head are kept in the loop. Also, of you’re considering going on or off medication ALWAYS talk to a doctor. These types of medications are no joke.
The Hot Octopuss DiGit is such a cool and sleek little toy. It’s super simple to figure out and even easier to use! I have to admit, I was skeptical at first because Hot Octopuss has a lot of complex toys, I wasn’t sure they could do ‘simple’, but this one surprised me. This toy is great for solo and partnered play and is discreet enough to be taken anywhere.
The DiGit is 100% waterproof and it is made out of body safe silicone. It has 5 speeds and 5 vibration modes, so it has something for everyone. It has a USB cable for charging and it takes about 2 hours to fully charge. I admit, that is a bit of a long charge time when the run time of this thing is only about 40 minutes, but 40 minutes should be long enough for a lot of people.
The plastic finger rings make this toy act as an extension of your body. You simply slip it on your fingers and do what you know. Its basically a long, vibrating finger, with some very sleek curves. This is what makes this toy such an amazing beginner vibe. If you’ve never had a vibrator before, or you’re looking to go back to basics, this is a great option for you. Plus, it’s VERY quiet, so you can use it in even the most busy settings!
In using the DiGit, I noticed that this is a rumbly toy rather than a buzz, and, unfortunately, its 5 speeds never get that strong. I used this toy 3 times, twice alone and once with my partner, and it never gave me an orgasm. Maybe I’m too spoiled by all the super complex toys out there, or maybe I haven’t masturbated with my fingers in such a long time that I just forgot how I like it. Either way this thing just never did it for me.
This toy could have a multitude of uses. For partnered play it was wonderful. It allowed my partner to play with me more easily when we were in awkward positions and finger usage was limited. Also, because of its quiet motor, I could see this toy being very fun to use in public.
Now, even though my own experience with this toy wasn’t so great, it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t try it. Even though it didn’t get me off, I still enjoyed every minute of using it, and it was wonderful for foreplay. It just never pushed me over the edge. The DiGit is small, sleek, and simple. I will definitely still be experimenting with it and finding fun ways to use it.
When I saw that Blush had a pink and lime toy I just HAD to get it, and I am so glad I did. This is definitely one of my favorite mini toys. This ultra mini wand is great for travel and for beginners. It packs a punch and it’s super discreet. This is a wonderful clitoral and nipple stimulation toy. Duel use is always a plus for me!
The Aria Vibra Wand is made of 100% body safe ABS plastic plus a smooth silicone vibrating head. The whole thing is so satiny and luscious. It takes 2 AAA batteries that are inserted below the twistable bottom cap. It’s ALMOST 100% waterproof. You can clean it fine, use it in the shower, and be a squirter no problem, but I would not recommend submerging it for more than a couple of seconds.
It has 5 speeds and 5 patterns. Simply hold the power button down for about 3 seconds and you’re off. The patterns aren’t mind blowing, but the speeds will get you to where you need to go. The vibration range is pretty amazing and it’s a lovely rumbly vibe instead of a ‘buzz your clit off’ vibe. That’s always a huge plus for me.
This wand is the PERFECT travel size. The whole thing is about 4.75 inches and the head is about 1.5 inches. This makes it a great size for all hands and the head is long enough for us BBWs. Plus the shape of the body makes it super easy to grip. I personally hold it like a pencil (or some other writing instrument) and use it that way to diddle myself.
I pretty big negative for me was the flexibility of the head. As I have mentioned more times than I ever thought I would, I am a clit smasher with toys. If I can’t put adequate pressure on my bean, it’s not working for me. Luckily, the silicone head isn’t attached to a super long, flexible neck, so if you just push a little bit, you can pin it against the top of the handle.
Overall I would definitely recommend this adorable ultra mini wand. It’s relatively quiet for how powerful it is so it’s great for vacation or that mid day pick me up at work. Whether you’re a beginner or wand expert, this would be a pretty amazing toy to add to your collection. There are also 4 different color combinations, so it fits anyone’s style! Also, with a 5 year warranty, why not give it a try!?
Ya girl got her first wand! I am in LOVE with this thing. The color was the first thing that drew me to it because teal is one of my favorite colors, but also, WAND. This wand is sleek, sexy, and powerful. It quickly made its way to the top of my favorites list within a couple of uses. A bonus is that the owner of the company is such a sweetheart. Seriously, please, go follow them on Instagram right now.
The Reece and Rose Mini Massage Wand is cordless, rechargeable, and 100% water proof. The wand is made of body safe, medical grade silicone which is amazing. It has 9 vibration strengths and 20 vibration patterns! The whole wand is approximately 8 inches long and 2 inches wide, so it’s super portable PLUS it’s really quiet, so using it on vacation, or even at work is totally something you can do. The padded texture on the handle is also incredible. It’s so soft but easy to grip.
One of the major things that I love about this thing is the size of the vibrating head. I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned this before, but I have a lot of labia. Most toys that are used for clitoral stimulation are built with the average body type in mind. Having more of a body can sometimes be complicated, but not this time. The size of the head on this wand is perfect. It slipped between my labia with ease and got right to work. So, for all my big vulva having beauties out there, this toy is a must buy.
When I finally got to play with the vibration settings, I had so much fun. I usually don’t particularly care about patterns in a vibrator once I find THE ONE, but with this beauty, there were multiple ‘ones’. That has never been my experience with any toy, so I was pleasantly surprised.
During my first solo use, I came in almost record time of about 5 minutes. I had no idea what to expect, but I sure as hell did not expect it to feel this amazing. The second time around I experimented a bit more. I found the ‘spot of the day’ on my clit and then tucked the wand between my legs. I then used my hips to grind the wand against the ‘SOTD’. It took me a little bit longer to achieve orgasm but it was worth it. It felt wonderful and I wasn’t impatient at all.
Partnered use was SO different. My partner held the vibrating head against my clit in a way that I didn’t think I would enjoy, but woah. I ended up squirting! I haven’t done that with a toy in YEARS. Needless to say, we were both pleasantly surprised.
You should really consider buying this amazing, wonderful, beautiful, orgasm-inducing mini wand. You’ll be supporting a new sexual wellness company and a wonderful human. Also, Reece and Rose should be releasing new toys any day now!
I am the queen of kitsch, so when I had the opportunity to try a vibrator that looks like lipstick, I was SOLD. This little beauty is like the ‘basic bitch’ of the vibrator world. There’s nothing fancy about it (but it’s SUPER pretty!) and it only has one speed…strong. This is a “I need to get off now!” toy.
The Rose Lipstick Vibe is 4 inches when fully extended with a 1 inch insertable length. It is made out of phthalate free, silky smooth, ABS plastic and takes a single AAA battery. There are 2 different colors if you want to be as accurate as possible. There is this one, which is a dusty pink color, and there is a bright red.
Unfortunately, there are not too many positives about this toy. The smooth plastic is nice, but it’s pretty lackluster. It’s hard and it vibrates, that’s pretty much the extent of it. It looks super realistic, so if you’re worried about discretion while traveling or if you know someone will be snooping inside your bags, this is definitely a product to consider. The vibe speed and strength is super powerful, so it’s great for a solo quickie.
This toy is that it’s not quiet at all. The fact that it is built to be super discreet looking makes me a little upset that this toy cannot be used in any public setting. Yeah, you can bring it to work without anyone knowing it’s a vibrator, but the second you head into that bathroom stall and turn it on, there’s no questioning what you’re up to. When I used it I had a fan on high (because summer), and I could still hear this thing over it.
This vibe is also not waterproof which is a little bit tricky when you’re trying to figure out how to clean it. This thing is barely even splash proof. I have a huge thing with germs (as should anyone in the sex community), so not being able to wash this whole toy bothers me. Also, the lipstick vibe part sits in the center of a plastic tube, but not securely, so anything that wants to get down in there, can. Yuck.
Being a BBW, this toy also let me down in that regard. Since the actual vibe/insertable portion is only an inch long, I had a hard time navigating past my labia without the plastic tubing pinching me in some way. It was not a very fun experience. To be able to use it finally, I had to sit up against the arm of my couch with one had spreading my bits just so I could use the other hand to get it down there. Not attractive and very uncomfortable.
I hate that this is my first real negative review. I really wanted to love this, I’m just not sure this toy was built with anything but strength and cuteness in mind. If you are looking for a toy that you can bring with you to use on trips or even work, this might be for you. Honestly, there are much better options in terms of discretion and power. If you’re desperate to get off and have some place private to do the deed (and aren’t a plus sized beauty), this will definitely be your best friend.