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Master Series Coveted Leather Collar and Nipple Clamp Set

The Coveted Leather Collar and Nipple Clamp Set is fairly basic in the kink gear. It’s something that I think is a great starter set for those just diving into BDSM. Remove the nipple clamps, you have a nice sturdy collar! It’s very versatile.

The collar and clamp set is made of leather and metal. The 2 nipple clamps are secured to the collar via 12 inch chains which is long enough for a variety of body types. On me, they were even a little loose, so even larger breasted folx can use this. According to the packaging and website, the collar fits neck sizes 14 to 18 inches…sort of.

The really great thing about this set is the quality. It’s very well made. I have a few Master Series products and they have all held up very well. Also, I really love the kind of clamps that are on the collar. They are really adjustable to any kind of pressure you want on your nipples. The thing that is pretty lackluster is the sizing. It says that it fits up to 18 inches, which isn’t entirely true. I know that this collar is supposed to be slightly tight for the control and submission that the whole set brings, but my neck is 18 inches loose and this collar is way too tight even at the largest fixing.

If you’re looking for beginner kink gear, this is definitely a really good option. You get the experience of wearing a collar, plus nipple clamps, so you’ll get a whole load of use out of it. The quality alone makes it worth it and it’s small enough that if you’re short on space for a trip, you can just tuck it away neatly.


You can get the Master Series Coveted Leather Collar and Nipple Clamp Set right HERE 


I was sent the Leather Collar and Nipple Clamp Set for free by Naughty Betty’s in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Sportsheets Saffron Vegan Leather Thigh Strap

The Sportsheets Saffron Vegan Leather Thigh Strap is ALMOST perfect and it has definitely earned a spot in my permanent collection. This product makes sex so much more comfortable for both partners, especially ones with pain issues. The size of it is super inclusive too, which, if you’ve read ANY of my past blogs, you’ll know that’s super important to me.

The Saffron Thigh Sling is made out of polyurethane PU leather, so as the name suggests, it is a great vegan option for us plant powered kinksters. It has a padded neck rest with handy loops for extra kinky fun with restraints. The thigh straps are also super comfy and padded. The size of them allowed me to put them all the way up at the largest part of my thighs with no issue, so even us thick thighed folx can have loads of comfortable fun. Plus, the straps are super adjustable!

I had SO much fun with this thing. Not only did it allow my to keep my legs up in otherwise painful positions, but it also allowed my partner to have more control of his own body, without having to worry about mine, thus resulting in more satisfying penetration. Unfortunately, there is one itty bitty flaw with this product. If you are a larger person, beware of using the straps for super rough sex while the straps are higher up your thighs. This did result in a bit of chafing of my nipples and some catching on my piercings from the straps.

Overall, I would DEFINITELY recommend this product to everyone. You can use it in so many fun ways. It helps people of all body types with lovely penetrative positions and makes any kinky play, much more interesting with the addition of the cuff loops on the neck pillow. Plus, imagine oral with this thing! Just prop your legs up in the sling and relax as your partner goes to town.


You can get the Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Sling right HERE 


I was sent the Saffron Thigh Sling for free by Naughty Betty’s in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Budget Kink

We all want to spice up our sex life once in a while, but sometimes we just don’t have the means to get super fancy. That’s why I’m writing this post. I want you to be able to have as much fun as possible, in and out of the bedroom, with your partner(s). I know there are loads of these types of posts out there, but it never hurts to have more options.

When you’re looking for new items to freshen things up, always be aware of safety. Make sure you’re not putting unsafe items into your body, or using items in a way that could injure you. For this reason, I am just going to list some of the objects that I have used in the past, and some safe ways of using said objects.

Ice Cubes

Ice cubes are REALLY fun for sensation play. Our bodies are naturally warm, so putting anything on them that immediately cools, will make for a wonderful feeling. On the body, you can run the ice cubes against the skin, or you can hold the ice cubes in your hand above your partner, letting the cold water drip on them. The latter never fails to get a really fun gasp out of me when the first drip hits my skin. For oral it’s pretty simple. Just hold the ice cube in your mouth before going to town on your partner. The ice cube will have cooled your tongue to be just different enough for an amazing feeling on the genitals.

Kitchen Utensils

Kitchen utensils work as a great introduction to impact play before investing in the more ‘normal’ or ‘kinkier’ toys. You can use silicone spatulas, wooden spoons, metal icing tool for cakes, etc. The options are pretty limitless. Just keep in mind safety, as I have mentioned before and will continue mentioning until I am blue in the face. Do your research. Figure out the safe zones on the body, especially when diving into any form of impact play.

Scarf, Neck Tie, Sleeping Mask, ETC

This category is very unspecific. You can use multiple items for multiple uses. You can use scarves, neck ties, a sleeping mask, or, hell, even a t shirt if you have one that is large and thin enough. Make a blindfold and play with different sensations, use a scarf or necktie to make some easy hand cuffs, the sky is the limit. There is no reason why you should need to purchase anything for these types of basic play. Plus it can be really sexy and fun.

Clothes pins

Clothes pins are…very interesting. This is something that I would only recommend for the people who can handle a little bit of pain, because they’re not gentle. My favorite way of using clothes pins is on my nipples, but ever since I got actual nipple clamps, they haven’t seen much use. Some of the other, kinkier, uses for clothes pins could be full body clamping or labial pinching. Like I said, probably not for the vanilla players, but hey, you never know if something’s your kink until you try it.

Bonus: Spanking

I really wanted to add something to this list that wasn’t an object. Spanking doesn’t require anything except a little knowledge and your hand. You might think, why spanking? Well, for one, it’s really fun, and two, it’s a lot more complicated than one might think. There’s the basic spank of hand to ass cheek, but have you thought about changing it up a bit? Play with the way your fingers are spread out, learn the different areas that are safe to spank on and around the bum. There’s so much more to spanking than just the basic way you see in movies or even in porn (because lets be fair, some porn can be fairly vanilla, unless you know where to look).


I am not an expert in anything. These are just my opinions and my experiences. If you have any questions, please do your own research and ask the proper people. I am not responsible for any injury that may or may not occur in using the objects and items mentioned above.

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Kinks and Fetishes

I’ve been trying to talk a lot more about me, and what better way for you to get to know me than by learning about my kinks? I am a submissive by nature but since becoming more of a kinkster I have learned that my TRUE love is being a Little. Now, I don’t like age play, but everything else that comes from being a little (feeling small, weak, protected, owned, etc) makes me feel amazing. Although, something I have really taken to heart lately is this quote: “Remember, labels are for soup cans, not for people.” – tequilarose.

I may identify as a ‘little’ but my spectrum of kinks/fetishes is very broad. Yes, most of the things that I enjoy, I do get from being a little, but there are also some things that are just very arousing for me. Also, being pansexual, I can get my thrill from all genders, not just males. Some of the main things that I love, do involve strength, which, as of right now, I have only found in masculine people. Femmes, step on up! I am ready!

The List

Choking

To me, choking is fairly basic, not that that’s a bad thing. I love it and I know a LOT of people who also enjoy it. Testing the limits of your body and putting your total trust in another human is so powerful. Your life is, literally, in the other persons hands. If that doesn’t scream submission, I don’t know what does.

Anal

I am still fairly new to anal, but(t) I am already obsessed. As I have mentioned MANY times before, my orgasms don’t come easy, however, with anal sex my orgasms are a lot more common. The last time I did anal, I almost came simply from the act itself. The addition of any toy would have put me over the edge. Unfortunately, I still have a bit of a sizing issue as is the case with most anal newbies. Whenever I go up a size in whatever object I am putting back there, I tend to bleed a bit, which is totally ok, as long as it’s not a horrifying amount. I guess I just have to keep working on it!

Biting

Biting is my jam. I love giving and receiving bites. I love soft nibbles and being bitten until I bleed. There’s not much else to say about that. Bite my lip, neck, ear, nipples, thighs, feet, I don’t care, I love it all.

Nipple Play

Nipple play has always been a strange thing for me. Because of past trauma, I don’t do gentle. I like my nipples played with rough and greedy. I am a huge fan of nipple clamps, pinching, biting (see above), and other various other forms of nipple aggression. One of my VERY favorite things is when someone reaches up the front of my shirt and plays with them. Just in case anyone ever wonders why I love crop tops and no bra, that’s why.

Forced Submission (Consensual Non-Consent)

Out of respect of the people who might be triggered by this type of kink, I won’t go into too much detail about CNC or my specific history with it. For me, it’s just all about domination. Going into a scene or a situation where I know that I am going to be dominated 100% is so thrilling.

Restraints/Being Restrained

Everyone interprets the ‘restraints’ kink differently. Some people really enjoy rope play, others might only enjoy wearing cuffs on occasion, but I enjoy all of it…to an extent. I am not a huge fan of being fully restrained, but I do enjoy wrist and ankle restraints of any kind, as well as wearing a collar (but that really…TIES…into the choking category). However, take off the cuffs and rope to use your hands and/or your body to keep me restrained, you will get no objection from me of ANY kind.

Group Sex/Worship

One of my absolute biggest kinks is group sex, specifically where I am the center of attention at some point or another. To have multiple peoples mouths, hands, and other various body parts on me is…phenomenal. It makes me feel like such a goddess. Some part of me thinks it’s because I’m submissive, and to be under the control of multiple humans at the same time gives me some sort of sexual, sensory overload. Another part of me just thinks it’s because I’m a needy little bitch.

Impact Play

Slap me, spank me, flog me, really just do whatever you want to me.

Arms/Hands

I have ALWAYS been a huge fan of bulky arms and large hands (masc or femme!). I really have no idea why, but who the fuck cares. Arms fresh from working out is my favorite, when the veins are all bulgy and they’re all sweaty….mmmm. Excuse me for a minute.