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Le Wand Original

The Le Wand was sent to me by MedAmour to try and review. I am so glad they did! I had never had a ‘real’ wand before receiving it, so to be able to try this magnificent creature was such a gift. At first glance my overall impression of this thing was ‘YIKES’. That remained my opinion until my second use. This thing is a monster. It’s big and bulky, but a beautiful take on the classic ‘Magic Wand’.

The Le Wand has 10 speeds and 20 patterns! That is a whole lot of usage from one toy. This thing has a flexible, silicone head which moves with your body. It is cordless, rechargeable with use in about 3 hours, and splash proof, which means you can wash it thoroughly, but don’t use it in the bathtub. Also, even though this beast is so huge, it’s surprisingly travel friendly. It has a lock and everything. Maybe don’t bring it in a carry on, but definitely pack it in your main suitcase.

Like I said, I said ‘Yikes’ the first time I saw this, turned it on, and used it. The first time I played with it I was so intimidated. It’s very heavy, it’s huge, and it’s REALLY loud. This thing sounds like a lawn mower or an electric scooter. There’s a reason why I call it ‘monster’ and ‘beast’. The head is 2.45 inches, the whole thing is over 13 inches long, and it weighs approximately 3.1 LBS. Not a gentle creature.

Besides the size, weight, and loudness, there aren’t that many negatives about the Le Wand. It’s like the BDSM of vibrators. It hurts so good. Since it’s heavy, it is somewhat painful to hold for extended periods of time. Plus, since the motor is so powerful, not only can it numb your clit in a matter of seconds, but it can also be ripped out of your hands due to the force of the vibrations.

Another pretty major negative, for me, was the size of the silicone head. The thing has a diameter of 2.45 inches. That’s a lot of stuff to squeeze between my larger lips. It would be great if I could be one of those people who could just sit on the thing and let it work, but alas, I am not. With it’s size, I had to spread and smoosh to get it to vibrate anything other than my fat lady bits.

The second time I used it, and after realizing that there are things like the Liberator Wanda to hold it for me, I actually had a grand old time. I found that the buzziness of the wand wasn’t nearly as intense on my clit when I used a good amount of lube. Yes, as per usual, it took me about 30 minutes to finally get off, but hey, the fact that I got off at all was an accomplishment. I honestly thought this would be too much for me, but it turned out great!

Another thing is that it is AMAZING as a body massager. It’s WONDERFUL. I have a lot of tension in my back and shoulders from being an artist, so this thing comes out all the time to work out my knots. I get why this was the popular vibrator of choice back in the day. It’s so multi functional!

As much as I have come to love this wand, I would love to try it’s baby sibling, the Le Wand Petite. I feel like overall, it would be a better toy for me and my every day life. The Le Wand though, is an immediate classic. It’s beautiful, sleek, and powerful. Definitely not for masturbatory beginners, but I would go so far as to say that it’s a must have in any bedroom for all it’s various other uses.


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Where is My Orgasm?

Recently, some of you may have noticed me talking a lot about my ‘missing’ orgasms. It’s not like I don’t have them, they are just very hard to come by. It makes me sad, mad, frustrated, and sometimes a little crazy. My own personal mental and physical health issues are huge factors, I know this, but I can’t be alone. I need to know that I am not the only person who can’t cum within mere minutes of diddling.

My solo orgasm, with a toy, took approx 25 minutes. The average ‘aroused’ vulva having person takes about 20 minutes to orgasm, while the average penis having person only takes about 5 minutes. That is just the average. In reality, I’m with a partner that has a hard time lasting 5 minutes, and I last much longer than the ‘average’ 25 minutes. Not really a great mix. We’re definitely working on it all. With him we’ve tried cock rings and other methods, which seem to be working great, so don’t feel too bad.

Some (bio)logical reasons for my lack of orgasms or difficulty finding them could be my anti anxiety meds or my PCOS. It’s fairly common for anti anxiety meds to reduce libido so that could be something to explore. I am currently taking 40mg of Prozac every day, which isn’t the highest dosage but I take it alongside Buspirone. Prozac is one of the worst SSRIs for sexual drive, so there’s really no surprise there. I am actually going to start halving my dosage gradually to see how that affects everything. Unfortunately, it can take up to 2 months to start to see any changes.

With PCOS, my hormones are all sorts of fucked up so I’m sure that plays into it sometimes. Also, with PCOS, changes in libido are very common. Low testosterone levels usually lead to a low libido. On the other hand, like me, high testosterone issues lead to high libido, but it also leads to some other not-so-attractive issues. Besides libido, PCOS may be a factor in sensitivity and mental health problems surrounding the illness.

I’ve also found that a lot of my issues come from mental blocks. My ex was abusive as I have talked about many times. He used orgasms as a ‘punishment’ when he was upset. He ended up bruising my pelvic bone a few times with how rough he was with me. I ended up having to continuously fake my orgasms just to get him to stop. As a result, I didn’t have my first partnered orgasm until a couple months into my relationship with my husband. I was sick of lying about it and I told him that I had been faking. It wasn’t until a few days ago that I really understood why.

Within the last few days I have been diving deep into my past and traumas to maybe find something there. Yes, I was abused as a child, yes, I had an extremely abusive ex, but I never saw anything there to indicate why those events were affecting what was happening now, with the exception of the fact that I still have some insecurities about whether or not I ‘deserve’ to be worshiped and given orgasms, even solo.

Most of the time I feel like my partner is getting bored or is hurting his arm/legs/jaw in some way because it’s taking too long. He has REPEATEDLY told me this is not the case. He loves making me cum no matter how long it takes because he likes to think of it as a fun challenge. One of his favorite things is watching me get off and maybe that pressure doesn’t help. The idea that I can’t a lot of the time makes me feel so self conscious and frustrated. I feel like I’m letting both of us down. I’m a sex blogger for fucks sake. My job is to have orgasms.

I also found out a weird thing. Before my accident, when I hated my body, I was entirely able to have partnered orgasms and easy solo orgasms. Now, I love my body and it’s the hardest thing in the world. Maybe before I thought about my body so entirely that the other stuff never came to mind, and now I have nothing to distract myself from the possibility of being annoying.

As for solo orgasms, I feel like a major factor in my issues with those is the expectation of an orgasm. I cannot stop thinking about what will get me off versus what feels really good. I mean, it all feel amazing, but even when I’m just playing with myself, I get the anxiety thoughts of ‘this is taking too long, you’re not normal’.

I was reading another sex blog the other day and the author was saying that 10 minutes to orgasm was a long time and it was frustrating for her. While I do understand that every body and mind is different, I would KILL to have an orgasm in 10 minutes. This is definitely the type of stuff that I should not be focusing on, but most of the time I can’t help it when thoughts like this pop into my head.

My partner has been so supportive through all of this. His sex drive isn’t as high as mine so sometimes he doesn’t really mind, but he definitely sympathizes with how frustrating this is for me, someone who used to be a 2+ times per day masturbater. While I’m waiting to see if reducing my medication dosage makes things better, we’re still going to work on everything as if that isn’t going to help. Hopefully, eventually, I can focus of the moment instead of that huge pressure to have an orgasm.

Since sex drive, wetness, and most other things that go along with ‘sexual dysfunction’ are not an issue, we’ll continue on the path of toys. Since both of my jobs are all about sex toys, I have a plethora. Changing it up seems to help, but when I’m having a particularly rough couple of weeks, I like to stick to what I know. That way there are no surprises (good or bad). This helps me stay more focused because I know what that particular toy does for me.

When I am having problems for a long period of time, the thing that has worked for me is extreme distraction. I usually blast a fan and some music just to get my mind off of life. The fan is great white noise and the music I chose usually has really harsh beats that I can find a toy or finger rhythm to.

The most important thing that I can express to anyone who is reading this who is having issues is communicate. Whether that be to a partner, a doctor, a therapist, etc, just talk. Make sure the people who need to know (and should know) what is going on inside your head are kept in the loop. Also, of you’re considering going on or off medication ALWAYS talk to a doctor. These types of medications are no joke.

You can always reach out to me on Twitter, Instagram, and via email thepinkspacelime@gmail.com

Here is some information on anxiety medications and libido:
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/antidepressants-decreased-my-sex-drive_n_7024738
https://www.buzzfeed.com/caseygueren/feeling-happy-but-not-sexy
https://www.health.harvard.edu/womens-health/when-an-ssri-medication-impacts-your-sex-life
https://www.thecut.com/2018/02/ssri-sex-drive-side-effects-anxiety.html

Here is some more information on what PCOS is:
https://www.pcosaa.org/symptoms
https://www.womenshealth.gov/a-z-topics/polycystic-ovary-syndrome
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/pcos/symptoms-causes/syc-20353439

PCOS and Libido:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4233312/
https://www.floliving.com/pcos-libido/
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/health/a19998507/pcos-affects-your-sex-life/
https://pcos.com/low-sex-drive-and-pcos/

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Hot Octopuss DiGit

The Hot Octopuss DiGit is such a cool and sleek little toy. It’s super simple to figure out and even easier to use! I have to admit, I was skeptical at first because Hot Octopuss has a lot of complex toys, I wasn’t sure they could do ‘simple’, but this one surprised me. This toy is great for solo and partnered play and is discreet enough to be taken anywhere.

The DiGit is 100% waterproof and it is made out of body safe silicone. It has 5 speeds and 5 vibration modes, so it has something for everyone. It has a USB cable for charging and it takes about 2 hours to fully charge. I admit, that is a bit of a long charge time when the run time of this thing is only about 40 minutes, but 40 minutes should be long enough for a lot of people.

The plastic finger rings make this toy act as an extension of your body. You simply slip it on your fingers and do what you know. Its basically a long, vibrating finger, with some very sleek curves. This is what makes this toy such an amazing beginner vibe. If you’ve never had a vibrator before, or you’re looking to go back to basics, this is a great option for you. Plus, it’s VERY quiet, so you can use it in even the most busy settings!

In using the DiGit, I noticed that this is a rumbly toy rather than a buzz, and, unfortunately, its 5 speeds never get that strong. I used this toy 3 times, twice alone and once with my partner, and it never gave me an orgasm. Maybe I’m too spoiled by all the super complex toys out there, or maybe I haven’t masturbated with my fingers in such a long time that I just forgot how I like it. Either way this thing just never did it for me.

This toy could have a multitude of uses. For partnered play it was wonderful. It allowed my partner to play with me more easily when we were in awkward positions and finger usage was limited. Also, because of its quiet motor, I could see this toy being very fun to use in public.

Now, even though my own experience with this toy wasn’t so great, it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t try it. Even though it didn’t get me off, I still enjoyed every minute of using it, and it was wonderful for foreplay. It just never pushed me over the edge. The DiGit is small, sleek, and simple. I will definitely still be experimenting with it and finding fun ways to use it.


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Reece and Rose Mini Massage Wand

Ya girl got her first wand! I am in LOVE with this thing. The color was the first thing that drew me to it because teal is one of my favorite colors, but also, WAND. This wand is sleek, sexy, and powerful. It quickly made its way to the top of my favorites list within a couple of uses. A bonus is that the owner of the company is such a sweetheart. Seriously, please, go follow them on Instagram right now.

The Reece and Rose Mini Massage Wand is cordless, rechargeable, and 100% water proof. The wand is made of body safe, medical grade silicone which is amazing. It has 9 vibration strengths and 20 vibration patterns! The whole wand is approximately 8 inches long and 2 inches wide, so it’s super portable PLUS it’s really quiet, so using it on vacation, or even at work is totally something you can do. The padded texture on the handle is also incredible. It’s so soft but easy to grip.

One of the major things that I love about this thing is the size of the vibrating head. I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned this before, but I have a lot of labia. Most toys that are used for clitoral stimulation are built with the average body type in mind. Having more of a body can sometimes be complicated, but not this time. The size of the head on this wand is perfect. It slipped between my labia with ease and got right to work. So, for all my big vulva having beauties out there, this toy is a must buy.

When I finally got to play with the vibration settings, I had so much fun. I usually don’t particularly care about patterns in a vibrator once I find THE ONE, but with this beauty, there were multiple ‘ones’. That has never been my experience with any toy, so I was pleasantly surprised.

During my first solo use, I came in almost record time of about 5 minutes. I had no idea what to expect, but I sure as hell did not expect it to feel this amazing. The second time around I experimented a bit more. I found the ‘spot of the day’ on my clit and then tucked the wand between my legs. I then used my hips to grind the wand against the ‘SOTD’. It took me a little bit longer to achieve orgasm but it was worth it. It felt wonderful and I wasn’t impatient at all.

Partnered use was SO different. My partner held the vibrating head against my clit in a way that I didn’t think I would enjoy, but woah. I ended up squirting! I haven’t done that with a toy in YEARS. Needless to say, we were both pleasantly surprised.

You should really consider buying this amazing, wonderful, beautiful, orgasm-inducing mini wand. You’ll be supporting a new sexual wellness company and a wonderful human. Also, Reece and Rose should be releasing new toys any day now!


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Mimic + Plus by Clandestine Devices

The Mimic + Plus is a stunning toy. When you take off the lid of the box this thing sings (not literally, but you know, choir of angels and all that shit). The bright magenta toy was snuggled into its perfectly formed cradle covered in a protective plastic shield with a sticker that says ‘hygiene sealed’. It all makes my sex blogger heart flutter. Inside the little bottom area was the satin storage bag, the magnetic USB charge cable, and the super detailed instructions.

This thing is made of body safe silicone, is 100% waterproof, AND it has a travel lock so it doesn’t start vibrating in your bag, which is freaking amazing. There are 8 vibration patterns and 6 levels of intensity that range from a small flutter to sitting on a race car, while it’s driving. The bottom of the toy has a bright LED that dims when things get dark and dirty.

I love that it gives you a vibration guide. A lot, if not most, of the other toys I’ve seen with variable vibration patterns just sort of make you wing it (pun intended). It’s sort of nice to know what all of the patterns will do. You still need to play around with all of them to see which one you love the most, of course, but isn’t that the fun part??

Charging is…interesting. I have never had a toy that used a magnetic port before this one. The magnet on it seems a little weak. When I would connect the charger it kept falling off if I moved it ever so slightly. In the end I had to put the toy down, magnet side up, plug it in, and then not touch it at all until it was done charging. The magnetic charging toys I’ve had since never seemed to have a problem with magnet strength, so maybe the one I got was a little off.

I’m going to preface my actual experience breakdown with, I was not in a good place, mentally, the week that I tried this toy. I had been masturbating furiously, solo and with my partner, for almost 5 days, with no orgasm. We tried so many different things, from using all the toys in my toy box, to vanilla fingering, to oral, nothing was working. So by the time I actually had an orgasm with this toy, it was disappointing. Not because of the toy, but because the orgasm I did end up having was like a little bottle rocket, compared to the grand finale I usually have.

The first time I used it, it was like running a marathon. It took me over an hour, and three different positions, to find the right spot to get me to the finish line. I used it the way the toy seemed like it was meant to be used: cradled in my hand, wings facing up (when it was in position), with the smooth, rounded bump pressed against me. In this position, it had the thing I hate most about sex toys (at least for solo masturbation), precision. I am a wild masturbator. Precision does nothing for me, honestly. It’s amazing when I’m nearing my orgasm, as I tend to get a bit more focused on keeping whatever is making my toes curl, right where it is.

The next time I tried it, I flipped it over…nothing. The best way to describe what the toy looks like flipped over is it sort of looks like a bird with a really tiny beak, wings and everything. The precision on this side was even more accurate and I just ended up getting really frustrated. Also, with the wings pointed down, against my body, I couldn’t get enough pressure because the wings weren’t as flexible as I would have liked.

With a partner the Mimic + Plus is WONDERFUL! We never used it for partnered masturbation, but we did use is as a clit/vulva simulator during penetration. Having it wedged between our bodies was such an amazing feeling made everything feel amazing. Still, no luck in the big O department though. Using it like this actually made my partner last longer because the vibrations slightly numbed his penis and made everything a little less sensitive, so that was a bonus. The Mimic + Plus was definitely made for partnered use. I can see this being amazing as a grinder for 2 vulva having partners.

In the end, being in a not-so-great mental state, made the Mimic + Plus fun, but not entirely satisfying. The design and shape of the toy was not nearly as body inclusive as I would have liked, and the type of vibration that it gave off never quite worked for my solo experience. For partnered play, it was great.

I would recommend buying this toy for 2 reasons: (a) it’s stunning and crafted beautifully, and (b) partnered play was made so much better with it. If you are looking for that extra spark in the bedroom (or wherever you enjoy doing the nasty), this little thing is the answer.


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Trusty Vibe (Blush Novelties B Yours – My First Bullet, Silver/Black)

I want to tell you about Blush Novelties B Yours – My First Bullet, Silver Power Bullet. First off, I really hate the name ‘bullet’ for anything, especially something that goes near my body. What they should call this thing is “Holy Fucking Shit Orgasm Pod”…or something.

My First Bullet is made of phthalate free ABS plastic, so it is slightly porous but it is non toxic. It has a 3 foot wire going to the battery pack, which takes 2 AAs. Having it wired, means there is more power than a one touch bullet or vibe. It is waterproof, so you can use it externally, or internally, and during water play.

The vibe has an adjustable dial that controls the speed of the vibrations, and let me tell you, this is not for sensitive people. It starts with a bang and only gets more intense. There is no ‘gentle’ setting on this beauty. It’s goal is to get you off, and oh wow does it!

The chrome vibe (egg, bullet, whatever you want to call it), is about 2 inches long and 1 inch wide. This thing is FUN. I have never not had a great time. I am a huge fan of vibes that just smash down on my clit. This does that plus some. The slick material makes it really fun to use with lube, and a really neat thing to do is to experiment with temperature. You can make the vibe hot or cold, and the sensation is WONDERFUL.

For masturbation, I love to get my grind on. I either put the vibe on a surface, pillow, etc and rub, or I’ll wedge it in my labia and wiggle my pelvis around. Something fun to do is once you have the vibe in place, take the remote and start pulsing the vibration strength by using the dial. Great stuff! Honestly, though, there aren’t many way NOT to get off with this vibe.

This baby is great for any gendered oral as well. You can use it on the base of a penis while you’re going to town, run it all around to tease it, be creative. For those with a vulva, your partner can use this internally, or just to tease your sensitive bits while they’re lickin the bean.

For use during sex, I like to hold it against my clit and run it against my partners penis during penetration. You can also use it internally, that way it also hits the head of the penis, which is really fun. It’s also great for grinding against your partner too. I imagine this would be a fun little toy to use for two vulva having partners. The great thing about this is you, or your partner, can use this on your entire body. I’m a huge fan of using it on my nipples during foreplay.

I’ve had this thing for at LEAST 3 years and it’s my second egg/bullet vibrator. I love how powerful it is. You also can’t beat the price. Cheap bullets cost around $8-$10 and nicer bullets will run you upwards of $50. I think I got this beauty for around $12. The fact that it has seen an inhumane amount of use in 3 years, and it’s still kicking, says a lot about its quality. This type of vibe will never not be in my collection of toys.

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