This review is coming at you a little late. I’ve been REALLY intimidated by this butt plug. After actually forgetting that I had it I immediately went to work on testing it. A friend said that I should call this blog post ‘My Eyes are Bigger Than My Ass’, which is really and truly accurate.
The Squeeze It Plug is made of body safe silicone and a thermo-reactive silexpan. You can easily stick it in the fridge to cool it down and harden it up, or put it in the microwave for a few seconds to get it body temperature and wonderfully pliable. This medium size is 4.3 inches long with an insertable length of 4 inches and a width of 2.5 inches. To compare, the Ballistic Metals Baby Sid Plug is only 2 inches at its width and I couldn’t get that one all the way in.
I actually really enjoyed the feel of this plug. The silkiness of the silicone was nice against my skin and the easy squish texture made the whole experience really comfortable. The gradual increase of size looks pretty intimidating (which it is) but because it’s a pretty slow climb, you can probably get there pretty easy. I wasn’t able to, but it is my GOAL to climb that mountain some day.
Unfortunately, the plug had some of the same issues as the Squeeze It Dildo. The directions say that it has a suction cup but if it does, I couldn’t figure it out. The base is relatively flat and didn’t have much of a curve to it. Also, where the outer silicone attaches to base silicone was already tearing, as was the case with the dildo. Another small issue I have is that when it came to me, it was squished on one side and the dimple that it created has been a permanent fixture on the plug.
Overall, this plug is very enjoyable. If the medium size scares you, Betty’s Toy Box has the full size range from small (2 inches) to large (3 inches). If you’re even braver, buy all 3 and do some serious anal training and gapeage. Either way, for only $25 you get a whole lot of plug to have fun with.
If you’d still like to try it, you can get it HERE for 10% off using the code PINKSPACELIME
I was sent the Squeeze It Squeezable Flexible Silicone Butt Plug for free by Betty’s Toy Box in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!
The Ballistic Metals Baby Sid Plug is…intimidating to say the least. I didn’t even get the largest version and it’s huge. This toy was designed by the porn performer Baby Sid to be pleasurable for both penis having and vagina having humans. While I haven’t yet tried this toy vaginally, I am very excited to do so.
The Baby Sid Plug is made of solid aircraft grade aluminum which means it’s heavy and very susceptible to temperature change. The version that I purchased is 2 inches at its widest point. The length, including the base, is 5 inches. Since this toy was designed to go both vaginally and anally, so the whole thing feels amazing no matter what hole you put it in.
For people who are doing anal training, this collection is incredible. The sizes range from 1.5 inches to 2.5 inches, so you can start off small(ish) and go big. It also allows you to feel a more intense sensation anally, instead of starting out with the typical, simple silicone or metal plugs. Great for the risk takers.
My experience was interesting. I haven’t played with anal toys in a hot minute so I’m a bit behind in my training. With this toy I was only able to get it to about halfway round the largest bit before giving up. I definitely tried, but it just wasn’t in the cards. I do, however, have a much easier time when it is helped along by a partner, so hopefully I’ll be able to get it all the way in through team effort.
This is not just a sex toy, this is a piece of art. Even if you don’t end up enjoying this plug, it’s very pretty to display. While the price tag on this product is a tad high, it’s well worth it. The bumps and lumps feel amazing for any body, in any hole.
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Question: How can I introduce toys into the bedroom?
Introducing toys in the bedroom can be a daunting experience, but it doesn’t have to be! Sex toys are fun, sexy, and the perfect way to try new things. Communication and honesty are key when trying anything new with a partner. There is no reason to fear a sex toy. Just make sure both parties are comfortable (and the toys in question are body safe!!).
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Toys can be such a fun way to enhance your sexual experience, solo or with a partner. If your partner is a little hesitant to try them, I recommend starting with a little bit of research – online and offline!
One way to gauge your partner’s interest in a particular toy is to periodically show them photos of toys that interest you. You can say, “This looks cool! Would you ever try something like this?” Or you can tell them specifically what you like about a toy: “I love the shape of this dildo” or “The silicone looks like it would feel so nice!” Sometimes I bookmark articles about toys I’d like to try and when our online conversation gets a little naughty, I’ll send him a link to a toy review and let him know how I’d like to use it on him or myself. Putting it in context allows your partner’s imagination to run wild.
A fun, flirty, and dirty date can be a shopping trip to find a toy to use together! I’ve found that trips to my local shop are educational in two ways. Browsing together inspires conversation and provides you with a safe, sex-positive space to explore. Many shops have a playful vibe and laughter can often inspire connection and help you drop your guard. You can also get help from the shop’s salesperson and learn about how to use a harness or perhaps what impact toys are best for beginning use. Have the salesperson show you how a vibrator works or which lubes they like. It’s all inspiration for when you get home…
Introducing something new into the bedroom can be a bit scary for some of us. Asking for what we desire makes us vulnerable. But as long as you and your partner are willing to communicate and negotiate, introducing toys into the bedroom can be a light-hearted, hot as fuck way to connect.
I get this question A LOT in my DMs. Everyone has their own backgrounds and experiences that shape their perspectives on sexuality and sexual expression. Some people are comfortable with the idea of exploring sex toys, and others are not. (It’s totally fine either way!) That said, if you are someone who is wanting to use sex toys with a partner, there are a few tips I have that can assist you in those conversations.
The #1 thing that I am going to recommend is just talking to your partner. This seems like an obvious one, but sometimes when people get nervous they forget the basics. Tell your partner about your fantasies involving toys. It isn’t always super easy discussing your desires and sexual wants, but it is important. Your needs matter. Your feelings matter. Your pleasure matters. Letting your partner know that you care about their feelings, but also letting them know where your head is at is super healthy and wonderful.
One of the next things I typically recommend for incorporating toys (after discussing it with your partner) is mutual masturbation. We’ve all heard of doing a sexy striptease, but have you heard of mutual masturbation? Think of it as your own private cam show. Often times, sex is rushed and the goal is to get to an orgasm suuuper fast. We don’t allow ourselves to connect in with our partners and see what their body is doing while they orgasm. Masturbating together gives you that opportunity. I can’t think of a single person who after seeing their partner getting themselves off thinks “wow. I feel like I am going to be replaced by their hands..” No. The thought is “Woah. That was hot. How can I recreate that? How can I give my partner that kind of pleasure?!”. (The answer is sex toys.)
From both professional and personal experience, I feel that often times the discomfort with the idea of sex toys comes from a place of fear. There is a common misconception that sex toys will “replace” a partner. For anyone who may be feeling this way, I have good news for you: In all the years I have been selling sex toys, I have never heard of anyone being replaced by a toy. In my personal opinion, if a relationship were to be ended by someone using a sex toy, the couple probably had some other deeper issues going on that they may not have been addressing. Either way, communication is key. Go have fun! Try something new! Access. That. Pleasure. Reach new heights and have some orgasms together 🙂
I’ve been waiting for this toy forever! It was actually one of the first toys I was sent, but because of a mix up in my apartments office, I didn’t get it until last week! Ugh! Before I knew I was getting this toy, I had never had a butt plug, but because of the mix up I ended up trying others first which sucks. I would have loved this plug to be my first.
The Tantus Perfect Plug is amazing for beginners! It’s made out of an ultra premium, body safe silicone and it’s only a single finger width wide (.75 in at widest point), so if you’re new to the world of butt plugs, this little thing should be ‘perfect’. Also, the base is slim instead of round, so it fits beautifully between your cheeks. That was a major upset for me when I tried my first plugs. They were heart shaped and hard, so I had a really tough time getting used to them.
This plug is also wonderfully long compared to other butt plugs. With an insertable length of 3.5 inches, I was easily able to insert it without any weird contortion like I had to do with my first set. The fact that I have a bit of anal training already made this thing super fun. It went in effortlessly and the bumps were super nice.
Wearing it around was so exhilarating. Whenever my hips would sway a little too much and my butt would jiggle, that’s when I could feel it the best. The slim base was so comfortable and sometimes I forgot I was wearing it….until I tried to sit down. That was an adventure. I’m still not used to wearing plugs anywhere besides the bedroom, so doing menial tasks around the house was interesting.
During penetration it was also pretty fun. My partner said that it definitely felt different but that it didn’t make my vagina nearly as tight as the other, more bulbous ones. For me, it felt best lying on my back versus doggy style since it was pinned between the bed and my partners penis with each thrust.
Overall, an amazing starter toy. It is the perfect width and length for beginners. Use with your favorite water based lube and you’re good to go!