The We-Vibe Tango is a toy that I have wanted to try for a long time. I was in the group of people who got their start with sex toys by buying cheap bullet vibes and ever since I have gotten into the sex industry, I have been trying to find a toy that recreates the enjoyment I got out of those. This is it. It has the power of the classic corded bullets with the upgraded technology of We-Vibe.
The Tango is made from body safe ABS plastic and is rechargeable via magnetic USB (with its own charging cap!). Each charge takes approximately 90 minutes and you get a whole 120 minutes on a single charge. Plus, it’s completely waterproof so you can enjoy all 8 vibration modes in any situation.
Out of all the ‘discreet’ type toys that I have tried, this one has quickly become my favorite. It’s super quiet and the design of it makes it super easy to use. The flat side is amazing for holding in place, flat against your body and the finer point makes it feel great for precision stimulation.
Unfortunately, with most small toys, my biggest complaint is, in fact, the size. Plus the fact that it gets a little bit slippery to hold once the juices start flowing makes it slightly frustrating. A design suggestion I might make for this higher end toy would be to have a better grip and maybe make a slightly larger version of it.
I HIGHLY recommend this toy overall. It’s absolutely perfect for a small nightstand toy. It’s so powerful but also very quiet. I definitely will recommend this to anyone who is looking for a small, rechargeable toy that is body safe and higher quality.
You can get this product right HERE and just search for ‘Tango’. Use PINKSPACELIME to receive $10 off your first order and free shipping on orders over $75!
I was sent the We-Vibe Tango for free by MedAmour in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!
With my experience with the last Hot Octopuss product I was a little bit hesitant, but I was pleasantly surprised. The Amo is perfectly shaped, perfectly weighted, and hits all the areas that I need it to. This is definitely an amazing toy for any newbie or experienced user alike.
The Amo is made of premium silicone. It is rechargeable and it has 6 speeds and 5 patterns. The battery lasts up to 3 hours and it takes only about an hour to charge. It is 100% waterproof too so you can enjoy it in the bath or shower! The vibrations are also a deep rumble instead of a clit numbing buzz, which is always a plus.
The things that I really enjoyed about the Amo is the weight and the shape. It’s weighted at the end, so I didn’t have to put nearly as much pressure against my body, which made it easier for me to hold longer. Its shape is really unique whereas it’s small at the base and larger at the top with a curved flexible silicone tip. The flat, squishy section on the top made it super easy to control the pinpoint vibrations. I was able to find a really nice upward rhythm against my clit.
The two things that I was not entirely impressed with was the handle portion and the location of the vibrations. The base is relatively small and made of a slick plastic, so any form of lubrication or moisture made it very slippery. Also, some of the vibrations came from the base, so after a while, it made my fingers slightly numb. Slick, moist plastic, mixed with numb fingers, makes for a difficult time finishing.
Overall, I think that it’s a really good, very simple clitoral vibe and it’s nicer than a lot of the bullets that I’ve tried before. It’s not too complicated because it doesn’t have too many gimmicks. It is what it is, and the design of this toy is something I’ve never seen before. I would definitely recommend this product to all who are looking for a simple, safe vibe
The Rock Candy Toys Suga’ Daddy and Suga’ Stick are, unfortunately, nothing to write home about. These are decent toys for newbies to the sex toy world or if you’re looking for super cheap options for dildos and vibrators. I was really not impressed, save for a few small details.
The Suga’ Daddy 5.5 inch, is a fairly basic, silicone dildo. I was actually quite surprised by this one. The silicone is super silky and smooth as well as really soft and flexible. I have never had a super flexible dildo, before so I was eager to try this. The bubbly ridges feel very nice moving in and out of the vagina and the suction cup back was surprisingly strong. I don’t have much experience with nicer, harness compatible dildos, but this is definitely one I would suggest if you’re new to using them.
The Suga’ Stick was the most unfortunate of the two toys. At the time I used this toy I had gone almost 2 weeks without an orgasm, and yes, while this toy gave me one, I was really upset that I gave it to this, of all toys. The vibrations that this toy gave off were extremely buzzy and the harder I pressed, the less I could feel it. I understand that they were going for the ‘pinpoint’ vibe, vibe, but it just fell flat. The stimulator ball at the end was far too big so the vibrations had a hard time moving through it.
They also sent me the Rock Candy Gummy Ball, but I do not put any jelly products near my vagina, so I elected to not review this product. Unfortunately, that seems to be a theme for this company. They market themselves as being really affordable, which is true, but I am always of the opinion that you don’t need to use jelly to make that possible.
Over all, I was not super impressed with these products. While everything is super cute and easily marketable, they didn’t really put a lot of energy in making effective sexual wellness products. However, if you’re in the market for a new, cheap, dildo, I would highly suggest the Suga’ Daddy. They have 2 different size options and since it’s made of silicone, you know it’ll be safe to put into your body.
I was sent the Rock Candy Toys Suga’ Daddy and Suga’ Stick for free in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!
First things first, I’m not here to tell you what squirting is. A few minutes on Google will bring up so many websites that will tell you, in way more detail, what squirting is and different ways to do it. I am simply going to tell you about my life as a squirter and what that means, for me.
I’ve always been able to squirt and, to me, being a squirter means making a huge mess. I’ve gone back and forth on whether or not it’s actually pee (which it totally isn’t…I think), I’ve been worshiped for it, and mocked for it. Needless to say, I have a mixed history with with squirting. I also feel like I squirt…weird. Almost every single website about ‘how to squirt’ makes it seem like it’s only a g-spot thing. That isn’t the case with me. I ONLY squirt from clitoral orgasms.
I recently posted a blog about my lack of orgasm. I am still (sort of) unsure about why I have such a hard time. I deduced that mental illness and medications may be mostly to blame, but I didn’t want that to just be the end of it. I kept experimenting and really trying to understand my body more. After a few weeks of that, I had the realization that sometimes I lose my orgasm because am a squirter. Not in the ‘I’ve squirted a little a few times’ kind of way, but in the way that, for me, is actually sort of embarrassing. I make a huge mess and knowing that prevents me from fully letting go.
I’ve only squirted with a couple of my partners (mostly because I was faking almost all my orgasms from go to 20, but that’s a story for another time). The first time I squirted in front of someone and not just by myself, the look on their face was pure joy. I still don’t understand why since it’s so normal for me and I had seen it so many times in porn. I thought ‘isn’t this what everyone does?’. Oh boy was I wrong. I got an ear full after that.
Unfortunately, I learned that being a squirter isn’t always such a magical thing. At one point I squirted so hard there was HUGE spot of the bed covered in it. I was so surprised at the amount that I texted my boyfriend at the time with a photo. His response was “I hope you’re cleaning that up…”, which he meant as a joke, but I did not take it that way. I was so insecure about the fact that it happens that I didn’t do it again for months. I felt disgusting.
While that definitely left me with some scarring, I bounced back fairly quickly on the orgasm front. I learned new ways to have orgasms that didn’t involve squirting and, even though it was definitely difficult to control something that comes naturally to me, I managed, until recently.
Ever since I figured that out, and become ok with it, I’ve been able to have way more orgasms. Yes, I mess up the sheets almost every time I come, but I don’t always have that mental wall blocking me. If you need to squirt, fucking squirt. While some people may not like it (I suggest mentioning it before you get freaky with someone), anyone who makes you feel like shit about it doesn’t deserve your come all over them.
My advice to anyone who wants to squirt is experiment with yourself, let yourself go, and invest in some amazing clean up towels, which I will be doing a review for later on. There is more than one way to squirt and you need to find your way, and if you can’t, don’t worry, not everyone can. The hardest part about accepting this about myself is that it needs to happen. If I don’t squirt once in a while, my body literally starts rejecting my orgasms. It’s great…
This is an odd little thing. I have said before (I think) that I am not a huge fan of g-spot toys, but every once in a while I am surprised. This is not one of those times. I used this toy only once and I knew immediately that I will never use it again.
The Play:Curve is made of a silky silicone with a really lovely metallic insert and an adorable little, leaf shaped, tail. A few other basics are that it is USB rechargeable, water proof, and has a decent battery life. After that, things get a little confusing. The website states that there are 25 different vibration settings, when there are only 12, which is described in the instruction booklet. Also, I’m still not even 5% sure how (if at all) I can charge the remote. Plus, the instructions say that you hold the power button for 3 seconds to turn it on, that is also not entirely true. You do have to hold the button for 3 seconds, but then you have to click it one more time to start the vibrations.
As for the actual vibrations, I was really disappointed. Not only do I have a hard time with g-spot toys, but I also have a HUGE problem with buzzy toys. This was both, so that’s really not good. It went in easy enough and the remote actually works when the Curve is inside me, but I couldn’t feel shit. I mean, I could feel something, and depending on the pattern or position I was in, I could definitely feel more, but still, a real let down. At some points, the buzz of the vibration completely disappeared.
In the end, this is really not the toy for me. The vibrations were awful and the instructions were really not useful in any stage of the test run. The most positive aspects of this toy are the color, the really lovely shape, and the price.
If you want to try this for yourself, you can get this product right HERE
I was sent the Bed Geek Play:Curve for free in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!
I will admit, when I saw this for the first time, I was skeptical. I had no idea how I would use it or how it would feel, but those thoughts vanished within a few minutes of using this toy. It is one of the most unique products I have ever used. The roller end was such a wonderful surprise and the other, vibrating g-spot wand, was perfection.
The Reece and Rose Massage Roller is made out of body safe silicone and ABS plastic. This multi-functional toy is waterproof for use in the shower. It uses a USB charging cable with a insertable connector. It takes approximately 2 hours to be fully charged from dead and runs for about an hour and half depending on levels. The whole thing is about 9 inches long. The roller end is 3 inches wide and the insertable end is 1.5 inches wide, with an insertable length of approximately 4.5 inches.
The really unexpected part is that both ends run independently. One button on one side controls the vibrations in the roller and the button on the other side controls the vibrations in the insertable wand end. That’s what makes this toy so multi-functional. You can use it as a vibrating dildo, a clitoral vibe, an actual body massager, etc. The personal and couple uses are almost endless.
The insertable, vibrating wand end is gorgeous. It’s smooth and it curves just right. The area that the vibrations come from are almost perfectly lined up with most g-spots, so you’ll get the most out of it. The tip is also a softer, squishier silicone, which means that using it as a rumbly clitoral vibe isn’t out of the question.
The rolling end is where things get…interesting, and this is the only place where I have some issues. For some reason, I thought that the roller would be motorized, but it is not. There are the vibrations, but the rolling part itself needs to be manually rolled. This gets a little tricky when trying to use the rolling part as a clitoral massager because once the roller is settled on the clit, it pretty much just rocks in place with not much moving stimulation.
Fortunately, the issues are also the positives. The fact that the roller just rocks and vibrates doesn’t suck at all. The sensation is similar to a session of heavy petting. Not a lot of wiggly diddling going on. The roller sit firmly in between the outer labia while the massaging bumps spread the vibrations over the clitoris and the entire upper portion of the vulva.
I cannot praise this toy enough. The Reece and Rose Massage Roller gives you 2 clitoral type massagers, a body massager, AND an insertable g-spot wand. It’s one of the best, body safe, rechargeable, all-in-ones I’ve ever tried. I am seriously in love with this brand. If you haven’t read my previous reviews on the Reece and Rose products you can read them here and here!
You can get this product right HERE and use the code PNKSPCLM20 to get 20% off your order!
I was sent the Reece and Rose Massage Roller for free in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!
The Reece and Rose Liquid Silicone Vibe will forever be known as the vibe that gave me 2 consecutive orgasms after a 10 day, 4 sexual encounters, and 3 masturbation sessions, dry spell. Now, I won’t go into details, but I cannot express enough how amazing this toy was for me. The vibrations are perfect, it’s not so big that you can’t wiggle it around a little bit, and it lasts a long time.
The vibe is made of a super soft, flexible silicone, that allows it to bend with your body. It is USB rechargeable and completely waterproof. The battery life is actually really great as well. It only takes about an hour to charge but lasts at least an hour. There are 3 vibration speeds and 10 vibration patterns. A huge plus is that it’s not insanely complicated to figure out. There’s one button to power it and the other cycles through the speeds and patterns.
The way that it’s shaped its also really nice. It’s not too curved like most g-spot toys. It has a very gradual curve. Plus, both sides are weighted fairly evenly so there’s not a super heavy side. The end that goes inside your body with the motor is also perfectly shaped. There aren’t any weird bumps or ridges that rub against the g-spot which, for me, can get really uncomfortable. There are little, tiny waves on the back to stimulate the other side of the vaginal wall. It’s so GREAT!
It it the first g-spot vibe that has actually done it for me. I had always thought and heard that firm toys against the g-spot are what does it. Not for me. When a toy is too firm, it ends up bumping against my urethra and starts to get it irritated. Because this one is super flexible, I can just thrust and it follows my curves naturally.
Another thing I loved is that it passed the ‘clench’ test. I am a hardcore clencher and I’ve been having a hard time finding a g-spot toy that doesn’t just immediately stop upon my extreme clenching. This toy keeps on buzzing away. The fact that I could clench my way to an orgasm made this one of my favorite g-spot toys.
ANOTHER thing I love about this toy is that since the motor and the shape pair up so nicely, you can 100% use this as a clitoral stimulation toy. If, at some point, you don’t feel like having your g-spot stimulated, turn this beauty on and go to town on your clit. It’s not so flexible that you can’t get any pressure against it and the silicone is thin enough that you can actually get a lovely rumble out of it.
The ONLY negative, as with most silicone toys, is when you have quite a bit of lubrication it gets tricky to keep a hold of. Because the silicone is so smooth and satiny, any added moisture to the handle turns it into one of those old water wiggler toys. It made it a little difficult to keep a rhythm by myself.
Other than that, I would HIGHLY recommend purchasing this toy for your collection. It’s so simple and easy to use. It has so many functions and, above all, its PRETTY. The teal color that Reece and Rose has picked for their first collection is beautiful. I am, however, hoping for more of a pastel color spectrum in the long run (hint hint).
The Le Wand was sent to me by MedAmour to try and review. I am so glad they did! I had never had a ‘real’ wand before receiving it, so to be able to try this magnificent creature was such a gift. At first glance my overall impression of this thing was ‘YIKES’. That remained my opinion until my second use. This thing is a monster. It’s big and bulky, but a beautiful take on the classic ‘Magic Wand’.
The Le Wand has 10 speeds and 20 patterns! That is a whole lot of usage from one toy. This thing has a flexible, silicone head which moves with your body. It is cordless, rechargeable with use in about 3 hours, and splash proof, which means you can wash it thoroughly, but don’t use it in the bathtub. Also, even though this beast is so huge, it’s surprisingly travel friendly. It has a lock and everything. Maybe don’t bring it in a carry on, but definitely pack it in your main suitcase.
Like I said, I said ‘Yikes’ the first time I saw this, turned it on, and used it. The first time I played with it I was so intimidated. It’s very heavy, it’s huge, and it’s REALLY loud. This thing sounds like a lawn mower or an electric scooter. There’s a reason why I call it ‘monster’ and ‘beast’. The head is 2.45 inches, the whole thing is over 13 inches long, and it weighs approximately 3.1 LBS. Not a gentle creature.
Besides the size, weight, and loudness, there aren’t that many negatives about the Le Wand. It’s like the BDSM of vibrators. It hurts so good. Since it’s heavy, it is somewhat painful to hold for extended periods of time. Plus, since the motor is so powerful, not only can it numb your clit in a matter of seconds, but it can also be ripped out of your hands due to the force of the vibrations.
Another pretty major negative, for me, was the size of the silicone head. The thing has a diameter of 2.45 inches. That’s a lot of stuff to squeeze between my larger lips. It would be great if I could be one of those people who could just sit on the thing and let it work, but alas, I am not. With it’s size, I had to spread and smoosh to get it to vibrate anything other than my fat lady bits.
The second time I used it, and after realizing that there are things like the Liberator Wanda to hold it for me, I actually had a grand old time. I found that the buzziness of the wand wasn’t nearly as intense on my clit when I used a good amount of lube. Yes, as per usual, it took me about 30 minutes to finally get off, but hey, the fact that I got off at all was an accomplishment. I honestly thought this would be too much for me, but it turned out great!
Another thing is that it is AMAZING as a body massager. It’s WONDERFUL. I have a lot of tension in my back and shoulders from being an artist, so this thing comes out all the time to work out my knots. I get why this was the popular vibrator of choice back in the day. It’s so multi functional!
As much as I have come to love this wand, I would love to try it’s baby sibling, the Le Wand Petite. I feel like overall, it would be a better toy for me and my every day life. The Le Wand though, is an immediate classic. It’s beautiful, sleek, and powerful. Definitely not for masturbatory beginners, but I would go so far as to say that it’s a must have in any bedroom for all it’s various other uses.
You can get this product right HERE and just search for ‘Le Wand’. Use PINKSPACELIME to receive $10 off your first order and free shipping on orders over $75!
I was sent the Le Wand Original for free by MedAmour in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!
Question: How can I introduce toys into the bedroom?
Introducing toys in the bedroom can be a daunting experience, but it doesn’t have to be! Sex toys are fun, sexy, and the perfect way to try new things. Communication and honesty are key when trying anything new with a partner. There is no reason to fear a sex toy. Just make sure both parties are comfortable (and the toys in question are body safe!!).
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Toys can be such a fun way to enhance your sexual experience, solo or with a partner. If your partner is a little hesitant to try them, I recommend starting with a little bit of research – online and offline!
One way to gauge your partner’s interest in a particular toy is to periodically show them photos of toys that interest you. You can say, “This looks cool! Would you ever try something like this?” Or you can tell them specifically what you like about a toy: “I love the shape of this dildo” or “The silicone looks like it would feel so nice!” Sometimes I bookmark articles about toys I’d like to try and when our online conversation gets a little naughty, I’ll send him a link to a toy review and let him know how I’d like to use it on him or myself. Putting it in context allows your partner’s imagination to run wild.
A fun, flirty, and dirty date can be a shopping trip to find a toy to use together! I’ve found that trips to my local shop are educational in two ways. Browsing together inspires conversation and provides you with a safe, sex-positive space to explore. Many shops have a playful vibe and laughter can often inspire connection and help you drop your guard. You can also get help from the shop’s salesperson and learn about how to use a harness or perhaps what impact toys are best for beginning use. Have the salesperson show you how a vibrator works or which lubes they like. It’s all inspiration for when you get home…
Introducing something new into the bedroom can be a bit scary for some of us. Asking for what we desire makes us vulnerable. But as long as you and your partner are willing to communicate and negotiate, introducing toys into the bedroom can be a light-hearted, hot as fuck way to connect.
I get this question A LOT in my DMs. Everyone has their own backgrounds and experiences that shape their perspectives on sexuality and sexual expression. Some people are comfortable with the idea of exploring sex toys, and others are not. (It’s totally fine either way!) That said, if you are someone who is wanting to use sex toys with a partner, there are a few tips I have that can assist you in those conversations.
The #1 thing that I am going to recommend is just talking to your partner. This seems like an obvious one, but sometimes when people get nervous they forget the basics. Tell your partner about your fantasies involving toys. It isn’t always super easy discussing your desires and sexual wants, but it is important. Your needs matter. Your feelings matter. Your pleasure matters. Letting your partner know that you care about their feelings, but also letting them know where your head is at is super healthy and wonderful.
One of the next things I typically recommend for incorporating toys (after discussing it with your partner) is mutual masturbation. We’ve all heard of doing a sexy striptease, but have you heard of mutual masturbation? Think of it as your own private cam show. Often times, sex is rushed and the goal is to get to an orgasm suuuper fast. We don’t allow ourselves to connect in with our partners and see what their body is doing while they orgasm. Masturbating together gives you that opportunity. I can’t think of a single person who after seeing their partner getting themselves off thinks “wow. I feel like I am going to be replaced by their hands..” No. The thought is “Woah. That was hot. How can I recreate that? How can I give my partner that kind of pleasure?!”. (The answer is sex toys.)
From both professional and personal experience, I feel that often times the discomfort with the idea of sex toys comes from a place of fear. There is a common misconception that sex toys will “replace” a partner. For anyone who may be feeling this way, I have good news for you: In all the years I have been selling sex toys, I have never heard of anyone being replaced by a toy. In my personal opinion, if a relationship were to be ended by someone using a sex toy, the couple probably had some other deeper issues going on that they may not have been addressing. Either way, communication is key. Go have fun! Try something new! Access. That. Pleasure. Reach new heights and have some orgasms together 🙂
I’ve been waiting for this toy forever! It was actually one of the first toys I was sent, but because of a mix up in my apartments office, I didn’t get it until last week! Ugh! Before I knew I was getting this toy, I had never had a butt plug, but because of the mix up I ended up trying others first which sucks. I would have loved this plug to be my first.
The Tantus Perfect Plug is amazing for beginners! It’s made out of an ultra premium, body safe silicone and it’s only a single finger width wide (.75 in at widest point), so if you’re new to the world of butt plugs, this little thing should be ‘perfect’. Also, the base is slim instead of round, so it fits beautifully between your cheeks. That was a major upset for me when I tried my first plugs. They were heart shaped and hard, so I had a really tough time getting used to them.
This plug is also wonderfully long compared to other butt plugs. With an insertable length of 3.5 inches, I was easily able to insert it without any weird contortion like I had to do with my first set. The fact that I have a bit of anal training already made this thing super fun. It went in effortlessly and the bumps were super nice.
Wearing it around was so exhilarating. Whenever my hips would sway a little too much and my butt would jiggle, that’s when I could feel it the best. The slim base was so comfortable and sometimes I forgot I was wearing it….until I tried to sit down. That was an adventure. I’m still not used to wearing plugs anywhere besides the bedroom, so doing menial tasks around the house was interesting.
During penetration it was also pretty fun. My partner said that it definitely felt different but that it didn’t make my vagina nearly as tight as the other, more bulbous ones. For me, it felt best lying on my back versus doggy style since it was pinned between the bed and my partners penis with each thrust.
Overall, an amazing starter toy. It is the perfect width and length for beginners. Use with your favorite water based lube and you’re good to go!