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We-Vibe Tango

The We-Vibe Tango is a toy that I have wanted to try for a long time. I was in the group of people who got their start with sex toys by buying cheap bullet vibes and ever since I have gotten into the sex industry, I have been trying to find a toy that recreates the enjoyment I got out of those. This is it. It has the power of the classic corded bullets with the upgraded technology of We-Vibe.

The Tango is made from body safe ABS plastic and is rechargeable via magnetic USB (with its own charging cap!). Each charge takes approximately 90 minutes and you get a whole 120 minutes on a single charge. Plus, it’s completely waterproof so you can enjoy all 8 vibration modes in any situation.

Out of all the ‘discreet’ type toys that I have tried, this one has quickly become my favorite. It’s super quiet and the design of it makes it super easy to use. The flat side is amazing for holding in place, flat against your body and the finer point makes it feel great for precision stimulation.

Unfortunately, with most small toys, my biggest complaint is, in fact, the size. Plus the fact that it gets a little bit slippery to hold once the juices start flowing makes it slightly frustrating. A design suggestion I might make for this higher end toy would be to have a better grip and maybe make a slightly larger version of it.

I HIGHLY recommend this toy overall. It’s absolutely perfect for a small nightstand toy. It’s so powerful but also very quiet. I definitely will recommend this to anyone who is looking for a small, rechargeable toy that is body safe and higher quality.


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I was sent the We-Vibe Tango for free by MedAmour in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Fun Factory Be-One Couples Vibrator

The Be-One Couples Vibrator is a small but mighty toy. It has 2 powerful motors and it fits easily between your fingers to create an endless amount of fun. I’m also a huge fan of any toy that isn’t too complicated to use and has a super cute carrying case.

The Be-One is made of body safe silicone and ABS plastic. It only has one button and that cycles through the 4 vibration speeds and the bonus ‘flirt’ setting, which is basically a randomizer. There are 2 small, but powerful, motors in the Be-One which is what makes this toy so fun. It is rechargeable via magnetic USB and 1 charge of 1 hour gives you an hour of play. There is also a handy dandy carrying case and a travel lock.

I did not have a good time with this toy, at all. I was so hopeful, but like a lot of small toys, it just missed the mark in being usable for all body types. As I have stated many times before, I have a larger labia, so fitting anything between it can be challenging. Even so, I’ve run into an annoying amount of toys that don’t work for a larger body type. Even if a larger body doesn’t have a bigger labia, they’ll have a belly, or more stuff to move around in general, and small toys like this really don’t seem to take that into consideration.

For me, the whole experience with using this toy was frustrating. The smaller silicone piece that can slip between your labia was just too dang short. To be able to get any sort of pressure or rhythm against my clit, I had to make sure I was spread as wide as possible, otherwise I was just sort of jiggling my bits. Due to this, I wasn’t quite able to enjoy the amazing motors. While using it on my nipples and other erogenous areas, I could definitely feel their quality, but where it really mattered for me, it fell short.

All that being said, I really do admire the design of the toy. Seeing toys that can be used for all genders is still a step in the right direction. While this toy didn’t work for me, I know it will work for a lot of other people. The Be-One really has no limitations for uses. You can use it for foreplay, blow jobs, nipple play, etc. You can be really creative with it. Also, this little thing is SUPER quiet so you can have so much fun, discreet play.

In the end, this toy really does not work for me simply because of my body type. However, I would definitely still recommend the Be-One because of its infinite uses and its amazing motors. Plus, with Fun Factory, you know you’re getting quality.


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No More Wet Spot – 50″ x 60″ Reversible, Waterproof Blanket

I am absolutely in love with the No More Wet Spot waterproof blanket. As most of you know, I am a squirter. I was sick and tired of having to mop up my mattress with towels and having to wash my sheets multiple times a week. The NMWS blanket has changed everything!

The No More Wet Spot blanket is made is 100% polyester. This makes it a very soft, washable fleece type blanket. The reason why it is waterproof is the finishing. While there are technically 3 layers, they are all fused together to make one thick, waterproof fabric (see below for a semi NSFW photo of the blanket in use!). To wash it, all you have to do is toss it in the washer and dry it on low, or hang dry it, like I did.

Since I am a projectile squirter, I decided to get to the largest version of this blanket. It’s a perfect size to fit over the entirety of my queen bed. This makes it the perfect addition to any play because you just toss it on the bed and not have to worry about placement. Your whole bed is covered!

I was actually a bit worried about this thing since I have heard about other companies who make waterproof blankets making theirs super rough, hard, or even tarp-like. I definitely didn’t want that. Must to my surprise, this was nothing like that. The NMWS blanket is SOOO soft. Also, because of the ‘waterproof-ness’, it’s fairly weighted, so I do admit to having used it as a weighted blanket during a couple of my naps.

The picture below is a testament to the blankets absorption. While that amount of liquid may not look like much, I can assure you, it was, and the blanket sucked it ALL up! I was thrilled. Plus, because if the material, it didn’t bunch up, or inch away, no mater how much I thrashed around.

For those of you who love to get messy, or just get messy naturally, like me, this blanket is a MUST for your collection. It comes in 3 different sizes and there are 3 different color combos, so you have an abundance of customization options. I am so happy that I have something now that helps me feel comfortable being a squirter.


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I was sent the No More Wet Spot Waterproof Blanket for free in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Paloqueth – Wearable Vibrator

The Paloqueth Wearable Vibe is almost perfect. It’s long enough to fit inside of my labia, which is unusual. The part that goes inside, against the g-spot, is the perfect thickness and has the perfect structure. The clit sucking part is also very fun.

The Wearable Vibe is magnetically rechargeable and waterproof. It has 4 in of insertable length and the whole toy that goes against the labia and the clit is about 4 in as well. It is made of a silky smooth silicone for body safety and easy cleaning. There are 10 internal patterns and 10 clit sucking patterns. It also comes with a battery-operated remote which actually works surprisingly well!

The interior vibe sits against my g-spot perfectly! It’s not too hard it’s not too soft but it is very flexible at the base. I was able to move around a lot when it was inserted which is always great especially with the wearable vibe. It’s got to be comfortable! Also, the remote worked super well when the toy was inside me which is actually surprising.

Here is where things get a little unfortunate. The clitoral sucking portion is just ok. I mean don’t get me wrong, the amount that it buzzes and the amount that it sucks is actually really nice. Plus the fact that it has it’s it’s almost raised against the clit is really clever. Unfortunately, I have a wider area down there so my clit is a little bit further away from my vaginal opening. Any two in one toys are usually not very good for me and this is one of them. The clitoral sucking hole was about a half inch to an inch away from my clit depending on my position, and that’s not good for anybody. Fortunately, when I was wearing it, the clitoral part was vibrating the area around my clit, so that was nice. Still, to have it be directly on my clit, I have to do a lot of moving and adjusting to get it there.

The one thing I will give this is that it actually stays in, comfortably! Most wearable or panty vibes don’t stay in for me because they’re way too small. This one has about 4 or 5 inches of flexible silicone around the base, which snugly fits inside my labia. I was actually able to walk around and function with it in. With other vibes, that’s almost impossible.

Overall I would really recommend this toy. While the clitoral piece isn’t for everyone the internal vibe is very pleasant and the whole thing is very comfortable to wear for long periods of time. If you’re looking for that public play or foreplay or whatever you want to use it for, it’s a really nice. It’s also really good if you want to wear it for anal because you can wear this to stimulate your vagina and your clit, then have someone or something be poking your butt. That would be so wonderful! I haven’t tried it but I’m definitely going to!


I was sent the Wearable Vibe for free in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!


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Sweet Vibrations – The Perfect Match

The perfect match is, quite literally, my perfect match. I usually hate rabbit vibes but this one was the first one I’ve ever been able to get off to the way it was intended. This whole company has been so wonderful. Even their packaging is gorgeous! Every toy comes with a nicely organized instruction packet, a usb charge cable, a very sturdy storage bag, AND a spare usb wall plug. It’s still blowing my mind.

The Perfect Match is made of a super soft and flexible medical grade silicone. It is rechargeable with a charge that lasts up to 2.5 hours, so you can use this product uninterrupted for a really long time. It’s also waterproof, so, like me, if you want to experiment with your favorite toys in the bath or shower, you can. It 10 vibration patterns and each tip has its own motor, so you’re never at a loss for power.

I don’t know if there’s anything extremely negative to say about this, so I think I’ll just get that out of the way first. Maybe the one thing I’ll say is at the handle could be a little bit bigger or a little bit longer. When the toy is fully inside me and I’m drenched, it can be a bit hard to hold onto. Also, the button seems to be in a fairly awkward place. When I REALLY get into using it, sometimes I find myself clicking the button, which changes the pattern, which is never good mid climax.

Overall, this toy is mostly perfect! The super flexible clitoral piece was actually able to reach my clit, which is still surprising because of my past experiences with rabbit vibes. Usually rabbit vibes either don’t reach my clit, or they end up hurting because of the lack of flexibility. Also, the internal vibe was wonderful. It’s perfectly shaped and, while still being very flexible, it is sturdy enough to hit my g-spot with ease. With there being 2 separate motors, one in each tip, I was able to feel the vibrations throughout my bits. Plus, the vibrations are a very nice rumble, versus a clit numbing buzz. The patterns also worked really well with my natural rhythm.

If you didn’t get it from the rest of this post, you should buy this toy!! You should honestly buy everything from Sweet Vibrations because they are, somehow, revolutionizing sex toys for all bodies. Their toys, this one specifically, are comfortable for anyone and the quality is amazing. Also, you can’t complain about body safe toys being expensive, because this thing will only set you back $40 WITH a lifetime warranty!


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Blush – The Collection – Sweet Cream Classic Slim Vibe

The classic slim vibe from blush is actually my very first vibe like this, which is surprising to say because a lot of people’s first vibes are either the magic wand or something very similar to this. I love this toy SO much. It’s definitely staying in my collection for life!

The classic slim vibe is made out of a silky smooth ABS plastic and it is decorated in a very adorable pattern of little ice cream cones. It takes two AA batteries and it’s has an extremely powerful motor. To turn it on, all you have to do is twist the little tiny twisting bit at the very base. It doesn’t have any speeds or patterns, it just has different intensities. As you twist the knob it gets higher or lower.

Using the vibe is super simple. You twist the knob to turn it on, find your perfect intensity, and go to town. This works as an amazing clitoral or internal vibe, but much better as the former. The first time I used it, I ended up squirting all over my bed!

There’s not much to say I about this vibe other than the fact that it’s amazing. It’s not unique, it’s not really unusual, it’s just a very basic vibe that I’ve never experienced before. I had a really fun time with that I think the only thing that I can say is that it’s something that I think everyone should have in their collection especially because this one from Blush is body-safe, whereas a lot of the other types of larger bullets like this can be made of toxic materials, so just be careful of that.

I think I’ve made it pretty clear that I really love this toy and I think that everyone should purchase this toy and I know that I know that they have different patterns and different illustrations and doodles different colors of the base as well so if the blue ice cream cone people don’t satisfy your cuteness factor think they have some baked goods also and they also have some ones with just text on it so yeah give this one to try I really recommend it it’s a very nice staple toy to have any all your collections.


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Budget Kink

We all want to spice up our sex life once in a while, but sometimes we just don’t have the means to get super fancy. That’s why I’m writing this post. I want you to be able to have as much fun as possible, in and out of the bedroom, with your partner(s). I know there are loads of these types of posts out there, but it never hurts to have more options.

When you’re looking for new items to freshen things up, always be aware of safety. Make sure you’re not putting unsafe items into your body, or using items in a way that could injure you. For this reason, I am just going to list some of the objects that I have used in the past, and some safe ways of using said objects.

Ice Cubes

Ice cubes are REALLY fun for sensation play. Our bodies are naturally warm, so putting anything on them that immediately cools, will make for a wonderful feeling. On the body, you can run the ice cubes against the skin, or you can hold the ice cubes in your hand above your partner, letting the cold water drip on them. The latter never fails to get a really fun gasp out of me when the first drip hits my skin. For oral it’s pretty simple. Just hold the ice cube in your mouth before going to town on your partner. The ice cube will have cooled your tongue to be just different enough for an amazing feeling on the genitals.

Kitchen Utensils

Kitchen utensils work as a great introduction to impact play before investing in the more ‘normal’ or ‘kinkier’ toys. You can use silicone spatulas, wooden spoons, metal icing tool for cakes, etc. The options are pretty limitless. Just keep in mind safety, as I have mentioned before and will continue mentioning until I am blue in the face. Do your research. Figure out the safe zones on the body, especially when diving into any form of impact play.

Scarf, Neck Tie, Sleeping Mask, ETC

This category is very unspecific. You can use multiple items for multiple uses. You can use scarves, neck ties, a sleeping mask, or, hell, even a t shirt if you have one that is large and thin enough. Make a blindfold and play with different sensations, use a scarf or necktie to make some easy hand cuffs, the sky is the limit. There is no reason why you should need to purchase anything for these types of basic play. Plus it can be really sexy and fun.

Clothes pins

Clothes pins are…very interesting. This is something that I would only recommend for the people who can handle a little bit of pain, because they’re not gentle. My favorite way of using clothes pins is on my nipples, but ever since I got actual nipple clamps, they haven’t seen much use. Some of the other, kinkier, uses for clothes pins could be full body clamping or labial pinching. Like I said, probably not for the vanilla players, but hey, you never know if something’s your kink until you try it.

Bonus: Spanking

I really wanted to add something to this list that wasn’t an object. Spanking doesn’t require anything except a little knowledge and your hand. You might think, why spanking? Well, for one, it’s really fun, and two, it’s a lot more complicated than one might think. There’s the basic spank of hand to ass cheek, but have you thought about changing it up a bit? Play with the way your fingers are spread out, learn the different areas that are safe to spank on and around the bum. There’s so much more to spanking than just the basic way you see in movies or even in porn (because lets be fair, some porn can be fairly vanilla, unless you know where to look).


I am not an expert in anything. These are just my opinions and my experiences. If you have any questions, please do your own research and ask the proper people. I am not responsible for any injury that may or may not occur in using the objects and items mentioned above.

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(Q&A) Can you tell me more about strap-ons?

This is one of the topics that I, unfortunately, know nothing about. Because of that, I reached out to fellow sex bloggers for the information. I was super grateful to @kelvinsparks_ for helping me out on this one!

So, put simply, a strap-on is a combination of a toy used for penetration (usually a dildo), and a harness to keep it attached to one person’s body. Strap-ons have existed for thousands of years- there’s evidence of them existing in Ancient Greece, and even as far back as the Upper Paleolithic. While they’ve historically had a reputation for being a toy exclusively for cisgender lesbians, strap-ons can be used by people of all genders, bodies, and sexual orientations for any number of reasons. 

Anyone can wear a strap-on, and you can use a strap-on to penetrate a partner of any gender with any kind of body. You can use a strap-on for vaginal penetration, anal penetration, oral penetration, or even for manual sex. Plenty of cis straight men enjoy being anally penetrated by a cis female partner wearing a strap-on, transmasculine people of all orientations may enjoy using a strap-on for gender euphoria reasons, cisgender men may enjoy wearing one to offset difficulties with erectile dysfunction or to have double-penetrative sex, and transfeminine people may enjoy wearing one as a way to have penetrative sex without interacting directly with their genitals, or to offset the difficulties with erectile dysfunction that oestrogen hormone replacement therapy can cause.

A strap-on consists of two parts- the harness and the dildo- and while you can get “kits” that include both, it’s useful to discuss each separately. The dildo has a flared based, and the harness typically has an O shaped ring that the dildo can be threaded through.

Harness come in three general styles- three strap/jockstrap, two strap/thong, and underwear style harnesses. The three strap/jockstrap has loops around the waist and each leg, which allows for a lot of customisation of fit, leaves the wearer exposed for additional stimulation, and provides a lot of control. A two strap/thong style harness has one loop around the waist and one between the legs. While it doesn’t leave the wearer exposed some people enjoy the stimulation from the middle strap, and two strap harnesses still provide a reasonable amount of control. Finally, underwear style harnesses are designed to fit like a pair of normal underwear, and available in boxer brief styles or more feminine styles. They are easier to put on, as they’re strap free, but offer less support, so are less suited to larger or heavier dildos.

There are of course other styles of harness, such as boot harnesses, thigh harnesses, hand harnesses, or even harness masks. To make sure a harness fits properly, check both the size of your waist and hips, and the minimum and maximum diameter that the harness’ O-ring can accommodate. Some harnesses do have swappable O-rings, but either way you want the toy to fit in snugly without moving around. 

When getting a dildo for your first strap-on, the best measurement to look at is girth, not length. The partner being penetrated doesn’t have to take the whole length of the dildo, but they will have to take the girth. You’ll lose a bit of the length from just wearing it in a harness, and having some excess length to play with will make positioning and thrusting easier to figure out. Fingers are a good way to figure out sizing- can the partner being penetrated comfortable take one, two, or three fingers? A whole fist? The diameter of however many they can comfortably take is a good indicator of the diameter of the right dildo for you. Make sure that the dildo diameter and base fit into your harness O-ring, and make sure that your dildo is made from a body safe material like silicone. 

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Being a Squirter

First things first, I’m not here to tell you what squirting is. A few minutes on Google will bring up so many websites that will tell you, in way more detail, what squirting is and different ways to do it. I am simply going to tell you about my life as a squirter and what that means, for me.

I’ve always been able to squirt and, to me, being a squirter means making a huge mess. I’ve gone back and forth on whether or not it’s actually pee (which it totally isn’t…I think), I’ve been worshiped for it, and mocked for it. Needless to say, I have a mixed history with with squirting. I also feel like I squirt…weird. Almost every single website about ‘how to squirt’ makes it seem like it’s only a g-spot thing. That isn’t the case with me. I ONLY squirt from clitoral orgasms.

I recently posted a blog about my lack of orgasm. I am still (sort of) unsure about why I have such a hard time. I deduced that mental illness and medications may be mostly to blame, but I didn’t want that to just be the end of it. I kept experimenting and really trying to understand my body more. After a few weeks of that, I had the realization that sometimes I lose my orgasm because am a squirter. Not in the ‘I’ve squirted a little a few times’ kind of way, but in the way that, for me, is actually sort of embarrassing. I make a huge mess and knowing that prevents me from fully letting go.

I’ve only squirted with a couple of my partners (mostly because I was faking almost all my orgasms from go to 20, but that’s a story for another time). The first time I squirted in front of someone and not just by myself, the look on their face was pure joy. I still don’t understand why since it’s so normal for me and I had seen it so many times in porn. I thought ‘isn’t this what everyone does?’. Oh boy was I wrong. I got an ear full after that.

Unfortunately, I learned that being a squirter isn’t always such a magical thing. At one point I squirted so hard there was HUGE spot of the bed covered in it. I was so surprised at the amount that I texted my boyfriend at the time with a photo. His response was “I hope you’re cleaning that up…”, which he meant as a joke, but I did not take it that way. I was so insecure about the fact that it happens that I didn’t do it again for months. I felt disgusting.

While that definitely left me with some scarring, I bounced back fairly quickly on the orgasm front. I learned new ways to have orgasms that didn’t involve squirting and, even though it was definitely difficult to control something that comes naturally to me, I managed, until recently.

Ever since I figured that out, and become ok with it, I’ve been able to have way more orgasms. Yes, I mess up the sheets almost every time I come, but I don’t always have that mental wall blocking me. If you need to squirt, fucking squirt. While some people may not like it (I suggest mentioning it before you get freaky with someone), anyone who makes you feel like shit about it doesn’t deserve your come all over them.

My advice to anyone who wants to squirt is experiment with yourself, let yourself go, and invest in some amazing clean up towels, which I will be doing a review for later on. There is more than one way to squirt and you need to find your way, and if you can’t, don’t worry, not everyone can. The hardest part about accepting this about myself is that it needs to happen. If I don’t squirt once in a while, my body literally starts rejecting my orgasms. It’s great…

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Bed Geek Play:Curve

This is an odd little thing. I have said before (I think) that I am not a huge fan of g-spot toys, but every once in a while I am surprised. This is not one of those times. I used this toy only once and I knew immediately that I will never use it again.

The Play:Curve is made of a silky silicone with a really lovely metallic insert and an adorable little, leaf shaped, tail. A few other basics are that it is USB rechargeable, water proof, and has a decent battery life. After that, things get a little confusing. The website states that there are 25 different vibration settings, when there are only 12, which is described in the instruction booklet. Also, I’m still not even 5% sure how (if at all) I can charge the remote. Plus, the instructions say that you hold the power button for 3 seconds to turn it on, that is also not entirely true. You do have to hold the button for 3 seconds, but then you have to click it one more time to start the vibrations.

As for the actual vibrations, I was really disappointed. Not only do I have a hard time with g-spot toys, but I also have a HUGE problem with buzzy toys. This was both, so that’s really not good. It went in easy enough and the remote actually works when the Curve is inside me, but I couldn’t feel shit. I mean, I could feel something, and depending on the pattern or position I was in, I could definitely feel more, but still, a real let down. At some points, the buzz of the vibration completely disappeared.

In the end, this is really not the toy for me. The vibrations were awful and the instructions were really not useful in any stage of the test run. The most positive aspects of this toy are the color, the really lovely shape, and the price.


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